回复：回复：I am in the similar situation

该不该回国:

Are you sure that your hu*****and will take care of you and your kids when you quit your job? Does your family have a strong bond? Does your hu*****and love you and your children very much? Do you consider career or family more important than the other?

Long distance relationship for sure is not good for the family. If I were you, I might take some vacation time, and spend the holiday with him. No argue, but let him enjoy fun and peaceful family life, and pillow talk with him about our beautiful future together.

It's ok to give money to parents. The same amount need to be give to each family, both yours and his. Since his parents still living in bad condition, your hu*****and can do something real instead of giving money, such as hire someone to refurnish or remodle your in-law's house, and buy sone health insurance for them. He can also visit them during holidays. I would not discourage my hu*****and visiting his family.

On the other hand, if you does not care about him that much, or fear of losing career more than losing family, then staying in the US is better for you. He has his chances in China, and you will have your chances in the US also. Many American guys will still be attracted to you and will treat your children well.

That's my 2 cents. Not sure right or wrong. Wish you good luck!

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