Feel sad and want to cry

来源: samedi 于 2004-05-04 13:42:10 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (941 bytes)

I feel so sad right now and I cried a lot yesterday. All other chinese childen are so inteligent and never have any problems with their study. Except my son. He is 9 now and he has so much trouble in learning. I doublt whether he has leaning disable. Yesterday he told me that the teacher said he can not move on to grade 4 because he can not pass exam. What I'm going to do? I realy want to stay at home and help him more but I have to work and go home after 6:00. I hope I can quit my job but I can not since I'm the bread maker of my family. My hubby does not have the patient to teach him. I know my son is not clever, but how can I give him up? I feel so sad for him not being clever. I know he want to be a good kid to pleas us but he could not.Life is so hard. I feel sad for my son's life, not for loosing face for myself. I only want he can be a normal kid and can support himself when he grow up. Any mom has the trouble as me?

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• Sorry to hear your story. To -我分不清海和天- ♀ 给 我分不清海和天 发送悄悄话 (731 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 13:56:04

• 不要失去信心，有一篇文章关于一个妈妈 -咕噜~- ♀ 给 咕噜~ 发送悄悄话 (46 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 13:57:13

• 有没有跟老师谈过？听上去你儿子是个可以专心的孩子， -虎妞- ♀ 给 虎妞 发送悄悄话 (106 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 13:58:26

• 既然你老公不能辅导孩子，你又没有时间，看看能不能这样 -从朋友那里看到的做法- ♀ 给 从朋友那里看到的做法 发送悄悄话 (192 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:04:09

• You are not alone. We are in t -IronWill- ♀ 给 IronWill 发送悄悄话 (140 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:05:01

• Thank you so much -samedi- ♀ 给 samedi 发送悄悄话 (533 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:10:36

• 最好先带他去看一次医生，搞清楚他没有健康方面的问题 -花椒- ♀ 给 花椒 发送悄悄话 (196 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:06:45

• 送他上个辅导班试试，别着急 -只有很少数是天才- ♀ 给 只有很少数是天才 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:09:38

• 回复：Feel sad and want to cry -亮亮妈妈- ♀ 给 亮亮妈妈 发送悄悄话 (772 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:20:49

• 你别难过... -IronWill- ♀ 给 IronWill 发送悄悄话 (797 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:21:38

• 你真了不起 -也有个这样儿子~- ♀ 给 也有个这样儿子~ 发送悄悄话 (82 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:25:24

• 你有没有问过你家先生，他那么能耐就不能帮帮儿子？ -真的很气愤- ♀ 给 真的很气愤 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:40:06

• 真的吗？根据你的说法，应该是你骂你老公教育无方才对。 -逆水寒- ♀ 给 逆水寒 发送悄悄话 (26 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 18:25:39

• 铁哥，不是我说你，你那儿子还真的象你，老了还这么倔！ -开开玩笑的。- ♀ 给 开开玩笑的。 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 14:50:03

• Really want to listen your -samedi- ♀ 给 samedi 发送悄悄话 (269 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 16:17:25

• read this article ... -bluepebble- ♀ 给 bluepebble 发送悄悄话 (1855 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 15:53:19

• have read it before -samedi- ♀ 给 samedi 发送悄悄话 (51 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 16:13:58

• 也许小孩是有LEARNING DISABILITY -windi- ♀ 给 windi 发送悄悄话 (245 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 17:06:23

• 你六点下班怎么会没时间辅导孩子？ -逆水寒- ♀ 给 逆水寒 发送悄悄话 (164 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 18:02:15

• I have time but not enough. -samedi- ♀ 给 samedi 发送悄悄话 (708 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 18:40:47

• ask you LG take him to kumon. -autumnmoon- ♀ 给 autumnmoon 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 18:46:52

• 想帮儿子,先帮你自己! -asdfg- ♀ 给 asdfg 发送悄悄话 (178 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 18:53:53

• 但是也有不少从小到大一直成绩都不好的啊. -不是这样说的- ♀ 给 不是这样说的 发送悄悄话 (51 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 19:03:06

• 回复：想帮儿子,先帮你自己! -samedi- ♀ 给 samedi 发送悄悄话 (800 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 19:17:44

• Not everyone has to choose the -Cowabunga- ♀ 给 Cowabunga 发送悄悄话 (188 bytes) () 05/04/2004 postreply 20:07:17

• 回复：Feel sad and want to cry -mofan- ♀ 给 mofan 发送悄悄话 (128 bytes) () 05/05/2004 postreply 13:38:25

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