APAD: Third wheel

A "third wheel" is a person, often single, who tags along with a couple or two close people in a social setting, feeling unneeded, awkward, or like a "fifth wheel". It describes an uncomfortable, often involuntary, position of being the "odd man out" in a romantic or intimate pairing.

It is a common, often temporary social situation. It can lead to feeling like an outsider, a burden, or an unwanted presence. 

The term stems from the idea that a tricycle only needs two wheels, making the third one unnecessary.

While often viewed negatively, some find being a third wheel fun, offering a chance to support friends or get to know new partners.

 

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Haha, love the funny & smart parrot~~. 2nd 2 it, especially -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 04:11:02

@highSchool time:3-girls friendship seemed 2b short lived;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 04:13:49

To be honest, I was a bit afraid 2 be a 3rd wheel when being -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 04:19:42

invited joining hosting APAD, as U 2 r so cool & good on it! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 04:23:18

Nope, APAD should not be bicycle or tricycle, but a train -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 07:04:53

"choo-choo" + "click-clack" + loud whistle... here we go! ~~ -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 07:55:13

But, even on a train, there’d b some feel like 5th wheel :-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:16:15

是不是中文里的“电灯泡”? -永远老李- 给 永远老李 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 10:35:19

嗯,but much more,可以发生在任何社交环境中。 感兴趣的话,也可以看看下面English短文 -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (188 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 10:47:17

也可以是第三者 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 10:48:08

和老李同学所见略同哈,哈哈 -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 13:04:51

That’s why I’m into EUC these days. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:05:51

EUC? End User Computing? ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:10:28

R u 码农?lol -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 13:06:02

EUC: electric unicycle -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 13:56:29

ROFL! My hat off 2 U & the unicycle :-)))))) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 14:00:40

U two r so funny & so much fun 2 chat with. Thx!!! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 14:03:14

英译中:电灯泡呗 -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:12:39

听鹦鹉的意思是不想当第三者 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:50:14

开门见山直接要求上位,霸气侧漏哈,哈哈 -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 13:08:33

How about 三足鼎立 in Chinese:)) just kidding -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:47:40

Yeah, 3 legs structure is very stable w/ minimal material! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 12:56:55

哈哈哈, u made my day -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/10/2026 postreply 13:01:18

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