:-) Good thinking & happy 4 U! (might not b easy 4 people

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• whose birth citizenship were taken away, unfairly IMHO) -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 14:43:30

• I heard that China‘s nursing homes now accept foreigners， -暖冬cool夏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 15:10:44

• though I don't know how it works.Policy changes all the time -暖冬cool夏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 15:13:27

• 啊？nursing homes? run run run away! I'd rather die than going -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 15:18:35

• & it doesn't matter which world ~~~ -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 15:20:11

• I totally get how you feel—I’d prob. feel the same. -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:07:04

• However, just wondering: what would your family & kids think -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:08:05

• Would they feel the same? At that stage, -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:08:55

• it might not be realistic to refuse a nursing home. -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:09:21

• True! 当我们走不动的时候，where else can we go except养老院：）? 喜见林子夏，问候！ -暖冬cool夏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:25:11

• Nice 2 C U! My body My decision My way: I’ll b gone b4 then -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:27:32

• haha… sist, life just has its own way of unfolding.:)) -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:36:50

• I will end up in 养老院 anyway. Not that scary:) -暖冬cool夏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:09:00

• Honestly, if you don’t want your kids carrying everything on -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:14:10

• their shoulders, this might be the best option. -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:14:46

• Exactly!My mom recently decided to go there. Best possible选择 -暖冬cool夏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:27:52

• All my neighbors except 1 choose 2 stay home, 2 died @home -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:31:55

• in their 90s. No one wants nursing homes, think Covid time. -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:33:41

• 1）they’re pretty healthy, 2) PSWs come by to help. right？ -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:44:07

• Yes, relatively healthy w/ children nearby. Only 1 used PSW. -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:51:40

• 觉得：最重要的是，每一天都要快乐地生活！投资健康（饮食+锻炼）远离医院！该走的时候，没有遗憾高兴滴离开 ：-）） -最西边的岛上- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 16:59:37

• 100% agree! If it helps my kids, I’d go to a nursing home~~ -老林子里的夏天- ♂ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2026 postreply 17:19:15