APAD: guilt someone into

Definition

   to manipulate someone to do something by making them feel guilty

 

Examples

   1) She guilted him into helping with the charity event by reminding him of

      his past promises

   2) She guilted him into helping with the chores.

 

Etymology

   The term originates from the concept of using guilt as a tool to manipulate

   or persuade others to take specific actions.

 

Synonyms

   induce, cajole, sway

 

- englishdaily626.com [edited]

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I wonder why in each example, a she guilts a him. Are these gender roles a

coincidence, a time-honored stereotype, or a well-understood psychological

pattern? I do seem to see more men struggle to be the master of themselves under

crushing guilt or other numbing emotions.

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PUA? have been guilted into in life before, know the pain... -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 08:50:06

but never done so 2 anyone anywhere. -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 08:50:57

What is PUA? -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 12:41:20

pickup artist, a recent term, I think: -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (110 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 13:37:47

Thanks. Sounds complicated. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 13:55:52

中文解释: -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (968 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 13:47:37

Thanks. Not sure if I’ll be able to use the word. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 13:59:00

我在楼下的造句说的渣男就是指这类pua。希望没吓到你,哈哈 -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 14:06:16

Thx. Moral kidnapping(道德绑架) is another way of manupulation. -硅谷居士- 给 硅谷居士 发送悄悄话 硅谷居士 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 09:30:01

Yes. And language would be vital for self-defense. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 12:44:40

He guilted her into thinking she was the problem. -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 11:49:09

Not his first time. 渣男 was always good at it -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 11:52:27

during the relationship. 姑娘们一定要擦亮眼睛! -JoyAnna.- 给 JoyAnna. 发送悄悄话 JoyAnna. 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 11:53:01

Good example! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 12:45:13

Maybe women like to whine as if they were the weaker half:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 14:17:10

What a cover! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 14:47:43

never be able to guilt someone shameless into repentance -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/23/2025 postreply 17:25:09

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