Thank you everyone who has given me advice.

by the way, I can’t type in chines at work. My sister and I are Chinese. Her husband is a foreigner: believing in spending boosts economy. I am actually younger.  Her husband used to have a decent job but they both had no idea about budgeting. I was told there were serious consequences every time when she borrowed money. Anyhow, I will lend her money: about 80%, instead of 100% of what she asked so that I will not have a sense of guilt for not lending them. Thanks again for your advice.

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• You have to learn to say no to them next time. -yellowlemon- ♀ (96 bytes) () 01/07/2016 postreply 13:34:54

• 那就不要借了，你管不了他们这种爱花钱不顾后果的生活。 -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 01/07/2016 postreply 13:36:37