Qinger,
You are a caring and proud mom. Your kids are so adorable.
Are you familiar with mom's groups? If not,here is the link:
http://www.momsclub.org/links.html
If you join Mom's Group in your local area, you may meet some moms whom you can trust to watch your kids for you while you and your hu*****and can go out for a movie. Well, just my two cents.
Happy holidays to you and your family.