Totally agree:还是做你老公的工作，让他明白长期住在一起肯定要影响家庭和谐，对孩子的教育也不利。然后让他去做他父母的

We had the same situation as you 5 years ago, my popo was even worse, she comments ( bad ones ) on everything I do, the clothes I wear, etc, everytime I came home late, she would ask many times why, everytime I went on the computer, she would be sitting nearby, she was mad when my family members came to our house (they live in the same city as us ), eventually, I had to talk to my hu*****and, I let him know that I could no longer bear, this is something that may seriously damage our family relationship. I gave him two choices:
1. Send his parents back to China, they may come visit us every year if they want, but can't be more than 4 months each visit.
2. Send them to apartment, we could not afford to buy another house.

My friends helped me a lot, they talked to my hu*****and regarding this as well. My son also complained that his grandma controls too much about our daily life and treated me bad, my hu*****and eventually sent them back to China, now, my hu*****and go back to China every year, for one month, then they come to visit us once every two years, for several months. It's very hard to get this result, I always treat them very well ( this is very important, since this made my hu*****and realized it's all his mother's fault) even it's very hard for me sometimes, I lost 20 ponds in half year, I could not sleep well every night, but I never said anything bad about them to my son and my hu*****and. You have to do this, I saw a friend fight back to her popo here years ago, after her popo died several months later, she regreted a lot about that, remember; they are not your enemy, they are your family members the same way as your own, you just don't like each other.

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• I like your high EQ! Good story! -Just_1_for_U- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/15/2009 postreply 10:05:45

• Very Very helpful!!! Thank you!!! and Thank all of you (who repl -happygoodboy2009- ♀ (4 bytes) () 07/15/2009 postreply 10:18:53