I don't believe that AA can change her mentality; neither her ma

Change a person's mentality is very hard to do, especially AA sounds to me has very strong personality. This is one.

Also, with so many fights in the past, both are very angry and feel strongly that it is all the other party's fault. I doubt that AA has ever said "I am sorry, it is my fault" to her hu*****and. Ever. It is very hard to shed all these poisonous baggages in their shared history.

So in my opinion, this marriage is doomed. The only chance of happiness for both of them is to divorce, and then try to find another relationship. That's the only chance -- no guarantee though. But if they stayed together, they will never be happy.

Sorry for my negative opinion. But it is my true believe.

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• My opinion is from a person who had a failed marriage before -0809- ♂ (318 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:15:56

• communication issue. -Pathologist- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:20:23

• yes. communication is a key in a relationship; in any group; -0809- ♂ (0 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:23:27

• 离了,男的可以从头开始,很可能比现在好.女的,就难说了. -飘零的风筝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:32:56

• True. "离了,男的很可能比现在好" If I were the guy, I will 离 -0809- ♂ (49 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:36:07

• 这种情况，女的一定要很有自信才成 -乐乐逍遥- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 07:37:10

• 严重同意0809，尽管劝离，我觉很内疚，上帝饶恕我吧。 -123YES- ♀ (505 bytes) () 02/05/2009 postreply 08:08:27