美国更差， 还请不起保姆。 一个瘫痪的中风的老人，老婆照顾， 最后也给劳累死。

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Knocking on Heaven's Door: The Path to a Better Way of Death Hardcover – September 10, 2013

by Katy Butler  (Author)

 

这里有一个作者的在纽约时报的精简版 ：

 http://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/08/books/review/knocking-on-heavens-door-by-katy-butler.html 

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Katy Butler was living thousands of miles from her vigorous and self-reliant parents when the call came: a crippling stroke had left her proud seventy-nine-year-old father unable to fasten a belt or complete a sentence. Tragedy at first drew the family closer: her mother devoted herself to caregiving, and Butler joined the twenty-four million Americans helping shepherd parents through their final declines.