老人不干活，看电视，是天经地义的。

老人没有义务去干你的家务活。如果他们愿意帮你，是他们愿意。但你不应该指望他们必须要帮。

老人已经把自己(或老公)养大，现在应该休息休息了。

就假设老人们都不在家，你应该怎么干就怎么干。

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• 顶！！ -*smurf*- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 09:56:25

• ok got you -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 09:57:32

• No, I just can't believe the fact that your in-laws -HenryLi- ♂ (495 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:18:15

• dear doctor, they are the first of its kind i have -y2001- ♀ (280 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:21:58

• Yeah, I just couldn't believe this. And many people here -HenryLi- ♂ (485 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:28:41

• i am glad -y2001- ♀ (102 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:34:10

• In my real life, I had several true stories of how -HenryLi- ♂ (231 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:38:49

• i ve know from the very beginning -y2001- ♀ (167 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:42:36

• 10 years? I can't even live with them for 6 months! -大媽豬- ♀ (80 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:54:27

• I can understand you well, haha -HenryLi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:00:13

• 回复：I can understand you well, haha -大媽豬- ♀ (76 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:02:55

• 生猛！哈 -红尘一笑- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:26:55

• I know 大媽 needs that a lot, my sympathy. LOL -HenryLi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:29:34

• 你这个医生真是很正点，呵呵 -红尘一笑- ♀ (4 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:30:55

• 一笑: I am glad you agree with me. hehe -HenryLi- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 10:42:25

• 我父母经常来我这里。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (984 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:31:27

• 回复：我父母经常来我这里。 -tengtengma- ♀ (144 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:38:21

• ，zt他们愿意帮我，我感恩。他们不愿帮我，是天经地义的。 -知道点- ♀ (239 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:38:42

• 是啊。就是这个道理。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:44:12

• Co: 父母把自己养大，不欠自己的。 -loti- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:42:07

• 你父母常来和与公婆同住差别也太大了吧 --:-)-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:44:35

• 差别是：如果是公婆，只能更客气。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:51:34

• 你同他们常住过？偶尔回去几个星期客气一下真不是难事 --:-)-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:53:42

• 这点我太同意了"如果是公婆，只能更客气。" -知道点- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:56:26

• CO：你父母常来和与公婆同住差别也太大了吧 -wo-8- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 14:45:23

• Then why 老人有"义务"stay in our place? -tengtengma- ♀ (83 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:01:37

• in my case -y2001- ♀ (275 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:10:47

• I know. That why I am asking why we have to let -tengtengma- ♀ (127 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:31:37

• 我的父母，我不养，谁养？ -知名度比较高- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:32:03

• Problem is they can support themself. -tengtengma- ♀ (176 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:36:40

• benefits certainly is more than the shortcomes -y2001- ♀ (69 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:39:17

• 父母不缺钱，缺的是亲情。 -知名度比较高- ♀ (218 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:48:30

• Do your parents live with you for ever? -tengtengma- ♀ (59 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:57:39

• 回复：老人不干活，看电视，是天经地义的。 -知道点- ♀ (162 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:11:37

• they are enjoying the fun of kids, not take care -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:16:02

• 有人帮你看着小孩玩,小孩碰着哪了或摔了,起码第一时间能知道也是好事 -知道点- ♀ (87 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:26:31

• once my kid break the head at home because no one was -y2001- ♀ (308 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:35:05

• ZT"thanks very much to them for calling me"应该是这样吧:) -知道点- ♀ (422 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:49:43

• i am still learning, thank you so much -y2001- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 11:59:55

• 我觉得你是很不易,10年..太长了. -知道点- ♀ (76 bytes) () 10/08/2008 postreply 12:06:28