If your parent real got sick, can you give up your job and your

Do you have kids?  If so, that's your family.

Your parent(s) that need someone who can take care of.  If I were you, I send money as much as they need.

My wife visit her parents and both parents very bad sick.  One in hospital.  3 adults cannot take care of her mom (not sleep and made everyone cannot sleep).  How long can you suffer this?

I told my wife, send money to hire someone for send them to nursing home.  That's only you can do.

If you have children, you need to take care of them too.  That's your family.  Your parents are NOT part of your family.