一次PUSH不可能结疙瘩.

我认为你们之间的疙瘩是日积月垒行成的,绝非一件事就会让你们这么多年还望不掉. 你的PUSH也绝非在此一事上.I think that strong will is major part of your personalality. I would not say whether it right or wrong thatyou did. But being together for life, if that's whay you want to do, you will have to learn to live with each other's personalities, whateaver they may be. Based on what you said, I would say that yuor hubby does not take your pushy attitude too well. You'll have to learn to be a understanding wife. I think that if you really want to do it,you will have no problem doing a very good job of paying attention to his emotional needs and act accordingly. Living together as hu*****and and wife, especially if you two have very different views of how emotion should play in a lot of "important" things like getting a PHD or not, will need a lot of give and take. But nothing is more important for you two than the well being of your relationship, if that is what yuo really care for. Loose up a little bit. Don't always play the role of maturer one of you two. Once a while, let him be the one that makes the important decision. Remember nothing is that important that you would risk damaging your relationship. Wishing you the best of good luck.

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• 这个贴我顶. 两个要处好, 需要彼此都觉得合适. 彼此理解让步 -冬里- ♀ (21 bytes) () 05/04/2008 postreply 12:01:29

• 说得真好。就是这个样子。 -lankeke- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/04/2008 postreply 12:45:27

• 说得在理。 -培香- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/04/2008 postreply 15:14:22