这是一种生活方式的选择,要么妥协忍让宽容相爱,要么清心直说争取公平公正。都要以理服人,对人和自己都要公平。关键在态度,进攻守地都是自主选择,不是被逼无奈。理智清醒陈述所求,就有力量争取。个人认为后者和前者各有所长。Wish that you work it out nicely. Bear in mind that your mother-in-law is also your mother. Give her the benefit and the credit thus, but not beyond. And you have the right of a daughter as well. 加油!