I was so angry this morning

there are two places having water markings in our house (previous leaking). When we bought the house last year, the inspector recommended to seal roof flashings. I asked LG for millions of times to start looking for a roofer, always busy, busy. , not doing it. FInally, I could not wait and found a roofer. This morning the roofer came, and said they found another problem, asked me to add $150, I said OK. then told LG, he blah, blah, ..... and asked me what is the problem, blah, blah......I know the roofer possibly knows that I do not understand and ask for higher price, but what can I do? this should be done by hu*****and. but my hu*****and never did it. The roof was kept leaking in our last house, the feeling was so bad. Now we bough new house, and we have the money, so I want to fix it. Sisters, if you were me, how would you response ? Do the work, and possibly cheated by the roofer, and was complained by hu*****and. Let me go to the hell. FxxxK....... I really need to find a male soul mate to comfort me.

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• 老公靠不上，你就直接找人换呗，多大点事啊？ -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:21:53

• roofer asked $150 more, LG blah, blah, blah -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:22:45

• 我的天啊，150至于生这么大气吗？他既然不管就没有发言权，至于 -crystaldowns- ♀ (45 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:25:09

• 不明白，老公就要会做所有的?国内来的很少在这方面有这么能干的｡出钱请人就是了｡ -itistrue- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:29:13

• 就是啊，不过这个是不会干+不想花钱+还抱怨the heck out of it=烦死人！ -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:31:35

• 不一定要会干，但老婆都期望劳工对家里的事上点心：） -R2D2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:31:52

• 不管没事，只要肯花钱不抱怨就成 -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:33:15

• 自己花钱就是了,多大的事｡ -itistrue- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:35:17

• 道理是这样的，可我觉得是相互的,有些期望是可以用钱搞定的｡：） -itistrue- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:34:30

• yes ya, -windflower321- ♀ (147 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:34:33

• 漏得太厉害了 -weiyiweiyi- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:37:26

• 是，很烦，所以别理他就好了，花钱fix完事 -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:39:01

• 既然他不管，就别告诉他细节了。 -H&CMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:51:05

• 别生气，家家都一样。蓝颜知己在家也是这德行 -不上树的猫- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:21:59

• male soul mates don't fix houses either. -R2D2- ♀ (101 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:24:32

• male roofer maybe the best choice. -王医生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:34:37

• I haven't seen any female roofer yet. -R2D2- ♀ (91 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:39:38

• Male soulmate不管用，只能take care of your soul，不能take care of leaking -不锈钢碗- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:24:35

• we are so practical, lol! -R2D2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:25:35

• Rent a husband比较靠谱。馊霉到修房子这些活上一点没用。 -monochrome- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:26:40

• a handy soul mate, maybe? -R2D2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:27:09

• 人家只说让馊美comfort自己好吧 -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:27:59

• that, shall not be encouraged. -R2D2- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:29:00

• but I was so....angry -windflower321- ♀ (155 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:32:59

• just to clarify, you have roof and furnace fixed, right? not tha -crystaldowns- ♀ (57 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:34:52

• but take time to find one, and not be cheated. -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:36:44

• 唉，人家怎么就cheat 你了，你的猜测而已，打几个电话也算事那就都别活了 -crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:40:22

• 别气了：） -R2D2- ♀ (155 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:38:00

• 离！Lol。老公不干就自己干了。房顶漏了你也倒霉不是。再找一家估一下价。比较过后再决定。 -monochrome- ♀ (29 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:25:00

• 别动气。是不是你老公不会干，所以推托。 -201008- ♂ (77 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:25:45

• you don't have authority over $150? no wonder you kept at compl -20146- ♀ (83 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:26:16

• already charged $440, after roofer came, asked $150 more, -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:30:24

• 保险不管吗？ -betadine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:32:41

• 没办法只好出了。我理解你的心情。来, 到姐怀里来, 安慰一下。虽然不是male，也算是不男不女吧 :) -不锈钢碗- ♀ (162 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:34:37

• you are so nice. -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:35:56

• 哈哈，好像说的就是不才啊！屋檐的gutter漏水三年了，我也没管它 -VCPP- ♂ (81 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:29:49

• exactly like -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:31:06

• 蓝颜知己也帮不上你，只会更乱 -xiaoyur- ♀ (25 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:46:26

• 当他们不想做的时候就不停的找理由。 -lily5170- ♀ (377 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:47:41

• 生啥门子气啊，这种事情俺家都是俺搞定的，老公一出面，准多花钱！ -H&CMom- ♀ (56 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:49:23

• 有句俗话：毛要顺着拂 :-) 咳，我不该说出这个秘密 -VCPP- ♂ (134 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 09:57:57

• 还是到外面多挣点，俺想怎么折腾就怎么折腾。 -H&CMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:02:07

• 这话实在：-）） -betadine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:06:46

• I made equal money as him. -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:11:06

• 百十块钱的东西还征求他意见，给自己添堵不是。 -H&CMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:13:00

• you are right, next time I won;t ask for sure. -windflower321- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:19:02

• 钱能解决的问题都不是问题， MM看来还年轻，这种男人很难改的，除非你休了他。 -betadine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:23:41

• 这就ANGRY了？我LG那样的得让你气S。 -我爱果果- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:23:17

• 我家的也这样，就出去玩行，其它什么都不行，要不是孩子，早就离了。 -mewu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:39:16

• 出去玩都不行, tired, he likes to play Majiang or cards. -windflower321- ♀ (26 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:45:40

• 低碳男，好啊，很环保的。 -betadine- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:52:54

• 这个坛子的人就是很幽默，要是都这么想得开，估计家里就太平无事啦。 -mewu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/11/2013 postreply 10:56:37