中国很多女人经济独立,但是自我精神不独立,总围绕这劳工会怎样怎样,而不是我会怎样。
(Too slow in Chinese typing). To me, I am more mentally independent. If my hu*****and has an affair and we get a divorce, I will feel sorry for our marriable but I will cut him off my life and move on. I KNOW that I will be fine. I have a Ph.D. Chinese classmate, whose ex-hu*****and played around for years, but she still thought that other than that shared many good thoughts both as higher-up management people. She may find a worse hu*****and if she divorced.
So I told her that the first role of her hu*****and is a hu*****and (Chinese too), not a soul mate or a coworker, or a executive. Divorce him, adopt a child, and get a life. She did it after 18 years of struggle. Now she is very happy.
文学城有一些很独立的女子我很佩服,如中坛的陈默。有幸福就去维护,一个人过也很好,有孩子虽无奈也不怕。