My story with my Caucation husband is totally different with you

It is nothing to do with the race. It all depends on what type of the person you pick up.

Many chinese friends say "You are so lucky have such nice hu*****and. I met my boy when I was a student with lots of debts. We're both never married before. I showed him my beautiful culture. He loves and respect many my opinion. About fifty fifty, he says there is not such thing is fifty and fifty, except both party have the same income, otherwise it's hard to do fifty fifty. He told all his friends if you what to marry with a chinese girl you have to be very open minded and enjoy to be "abusived" by the little controler chinese wife. We discuss about everything. He pay everything. We both have eachother's bank card. We trust eachother. We both save a lot and organize to budget our expense. He wants to use my culture to teach kid. Early childhood education, not like caucation let kids run wild. He has strong believe about his culture too. He explain why here people don't stay with parents after they grow up. It is one way responsibilty. Parents take care of us, then we take care of children, your children take care of their children. That's the rule. He respect my culture and accept my parents to stay what ever they what. He think our double way responsibilty is reasonable too, also, we can enjoy have big family life and teach kids to respect older.
Many people asking about how my marriage to overcome the culture difference. I have to say, I pick up a very open minded nice caucation man. My ex-boyfriend is a bad sample of caucation. He loves my culture but not respect enough to believe it.
Chinese, Caucation, black, green, grey, whatever the color, are not important. The important truth is you have to find the right person for you. Do not suffer becasue you think I can't find the right one and have to stay with the wrong one. I still remember to show my hu*****and the Korean Drama "my ferious girlfriend". He just loves it and laughing about it. Don't think he doesn't have temper. He enjoys to be "abusived" by his wife. I have everything now, good job, big house, my own car, my pets and loving hu*****and. I don't have it when I first come to this country. It all takes time and remember to believe yourself. You know what you want and what you're looking for in your life.

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• Caucasian！ -一俗- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/17/2006 postreply 17:34:17

• Thanks for the correction. My English is not perfect, because I' -MMpioneer- ♀ (471 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 14:38:29

• How did you change your neighbor’s prejudices? -gzlady- ♀ (317 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 15:56:32

• 回复：How did you change your neighbor’s prejudices? -MMPioneer- ♀ (1246 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 16:15:13

• 啊呀，真不敢恭维你的英文，很难相信你的婚姻没有沟通障碍 -苗儿- ♀ (124 bytes) () 06/17/2006 postreply 17:44:57

• 哈哈哈哈 -刀爷爷- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/17/2006 postreply 17:51:03

• 我建议她向你学英文， -狗米- ♀ (36 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 13:29:10

• Are you afraid of communicating with Canadian, -MMPioneer- ♀ (710 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 15:31:22

• Are you afraid of communicating with Canadian, -MMPioneer- ♀ (609 bytes) () 06/18/2006 postreply 15:39:38

• To say your english is imperfect is an understatement, it sucks. -johndoe23- ♂ (9 bytes) () 06/19/2006 postreply 11:12:26