如果你真的爱老婆的,你会 主动地 告诉她你们淡话的内容,和 她分享,
( I type Chinese too slow, so I changed to English, )
if you were not willing sharing your conversation whit her, then you are not care about her in your heart, you maybe did not realize it,
why don’t you stop cool war? What do you wait for? Your waif must be very sad now, you let cool war least so long, which means, you are not care about her feeling,
it is a man should do