所以女孩不能成为弱势，不能仅仅依靠男人，又变成个黄脸婆。当你有能力

养活自己甚至家人，并保持魅力时，看谁怕被甩。当然，女人毕竟是女人，在家里应该是个小女人，依靠老公：）

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• Don't know what they are talking about, but agree with you! -Crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:29:27

• Thanks! 什么都靠老公，那要命好:) -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:31:51

• I think my 命好, but I enjoy having my own life too:)) -Crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:32:53

• same here :) -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:33:51

• 这就是矛盾。 -storit- ♀ (264 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:31:44

• There is something called balance, I know a lot of women -Crystaldowns- ♀ (60 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:34:09

• BSO. i have two. They are doing good now and i am doing great at -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:39:38

• I'm sure that's not all "luck":)) -Crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:46:40

• But they all say "You are so lucky" :) -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:49:50

• Of course you are, but you are smart too:)) -Crystaldowns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:56:51

• 互相吹捧吧：））） -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 11:00:01

• 国内把生儿育女和工作对立得厉害，国外都讲个work life balance -snwflk- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:38:09

• 这是生存问题。 -storit- ♀ (128 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:46:45

• 谈不上”拼“。起码在逆境时能坚强，肯吃苦。即使是 -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (45 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:38:16

• 国情不一样。没听说海带吗？ -storit- ♀ (165 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:45:12

• 所以我跟我女儿说，妈妈当然希望你嫁个好丈夫，但你自己一定要有挣钱的本事。 -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 10:48:38

• 在美国挣钱不难。 -storit- ♀ (239 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 11:05:00

• 对。这种情况一定要fight.为自己争取最大利益。 -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/15/2011 postreply 11:07:10