Recently, mom and dad had hospitalized one after another after catching cold. Yesterday, I finally had a long conversation with mom after they just returned home. Mom described how she felt when she and my dad managed to get help to go to hospital during that cold winter night. I can feel the helpless and loneliness they had experienced. Tears coming down form my face silently. As I am struggling to fulfill my dream , how could I help my parents ? It has been a long time question in my mind , but I could not get a good solution.
How could we help our parents
Recently, mom and dad had hospitalized one after another after catching cold. Yesterday, I finally had a long conversation with mom after they just returned home. Mom described how she felt when she and my dad managed to get help to go to hospital during that cold winter night. I can feel the helpless and loneliness they had experienced. Tears coming down form my face silently. As I am struggling to fulfill my dream , how could I help my parents ? It has been a long time question in my mind , but I could not get a good solution.
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• we are all selfish, to pursue our dream and comfort -acme- ♀ (192 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 11:25:34
• So sad! -www2006- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 11:27:41
• the more successful the kid is, the less help -acme- ♀ (460 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 11:28:50
• 我 和 你 想 的不一样.这事和孩子成不成功没啥关系 -4146- ♀ (756 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:04:50
• 回复:How could we help our parents -6682- ♀ (567 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 11:33:04
• 我觉得中国现在养老院有的很不错的,根据自己条件选一个 -北京小鸟- ♀ (340 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 11:46:17
• 我亲自去过中国养老院 不如家好,一人或两人一屋 市里 -hhhh- ♀ (226 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:44:26
• 我是听我妈说的,自己没有去过中国养老院 。 -北京小鸟- ♀ (266 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:09:14
• 老人离医院近点好 你父母年轻体会不到郊区不便 -hhhh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 20:15:17
• 父母养老要靠父母子女双方努力 -katies- ♀ (280 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 12:39:38
• 风树之悲 (图) -IronWill- ♂ (284 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:16:16
• what kind of position you put ur wife at? -21610- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:49:29
• 你老婆地位哪去了 -hhhh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:54:15
• 我是个不说糊涂话的人. -IronWill- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:22:03
• 我同样是个不说糊涂话的人. 我一生最爱是我LG 他离开 -hhhh- ♀ (193 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 18:08:48
• 幸福的家庭家家相似. -IronWill- ♂ (161 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 07:16:20
• 哎 !你 停 吸 烟 吧 ,为 了 你爱 的 人 ,请 别 伤 害 你 的 身 体 . -4146- ♀ (377 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:41:10
• 我是个快乐,健康的人.至于抽烟算是兩害相權取其輕.Thanks. -IronWill- ♂ (115 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 17:07:34
• 我爸吸烟引起肺癌,所以我一看谁吸烟就劝谁,算我啰唆,可我爸烟 -6596- ♀ (41 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 18:10:58
• 我是个贪生不怕死的人.不过还是很感谢好意. -IronWill- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 18:52:43
• 我也不怕死.但 我想说的是活着不是为自己而是为了所有 -461- ♀ (188 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 20:42:18
• 谢谢你的文章! -7120- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:47:39
• 写的挺感人的,而且写的真实,做人不讲虚伪 -北京小鸟- ♀ (118 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 15:01:58
• 回复:写的挺感人的,而且写的真实,做人不讲虚伪 -4146- ♀ (335 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 15:34:04
• 这样讲吧,父母的爱是绝对的,其他的爱是相对的 -北京小鸟- ♀ (20 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 15:39:55
• 父母的爱是不求回报的,其他的爱是相互的.人正是在相互的爱中成长,学 -4146- ♀ (272 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 15:55:56
• 讲的对! -北京小鸟- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 16:06:40
• 看个人的运气,和造化 -Ironwill- ♂ (194 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 07:25:26
• Touching.... -ferry- ♀ (41 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 07:55:28
• 这样的好文应该单独发贴. -64189- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 09:58:49
• 我老妈86岁了 她自己过 常年雇农村小保姆 我姐一家 -hhhh- ♀ (220 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:16:44
• 尽可能给予他们经济上和精神上的支持吧. -19862- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 13:26:41
• 每天打电话给他们,了解他们每天的生活.请保姆帮看着夜里好帮着 -4146- ♀ (567 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 14:20:36
• 有可能的话就请个保姆吧 -6890- ♀ (67 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 15:42:13
• 我觉得如果一个老人在家的话还是不请保姆得好,人心难测阿 -村姑- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 16:25:50
• 找一个可靠的保姆很难呀 我妈的保姆最早是我铁哥们帮 -hhhh- ♀ (240 bytes) () 12/28/2005 postreply 17:40:21
• 价格要略高周围保姆行情 人家350 你出400 否则刚培训 -hhhh- ♀ (160 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 10:13:12
• if you r financially good, -SAMUEL- ♂ (129 bytes) () 12/29/2005 postreply 08:54:21