=====视频分析=====
这段视频显示了一场关于约会谁付账的辩论。几位参与者在讨论在第一次约会时，谁应该负责支付账单的问题。对话内容围绕不同观点，包括传统观念、心理影响以及平等责任的探讨。具体内容包括：
1. 普遍观点：有观点认为在第一次约会中，男方通常被期待付账。
2. 平等分享：有参与者提到约会中可以尝试轮流付账或平分费用。
3. 性别角色：讨论中涉及性别角色和期待，探讨约会中行为所传达的信号。
4. 心理影响：谈论中提到，谁付账可能会对心理或关系产生微妙影响。
5. 社会期望：有人表示现今社会对这些问题有不同的看法和期望。
这段对话着重分析了金钱责任在约会中所表达的态度和潜在的关系动力。
=====音频信息=====
Under no circumstance ever should a man ever let a woman pay for a date or you ever ever know. Even on the third, fourth, fifth. What if it's the first date and you're just not in for anything? Okay, well, let me period. Well, let me. Okay. So what kind of world are we living in? Well, hold on a second. I agree with you. If I'm dating a girl, I would pay for everything. Everything. Yeah. Everything. However, I could see for other people that might be in a different financial position. You know, you pay for 10 dates and then she's like, you know what? I want to treat you. Well, that's, that's totally different. I, what we're talking about is like, oh, we're going to alternate. Like what's your serious. And she wants to take you out to something for a nice dinner. And you might, by the way, if you have the intent to marry, you're already like kind of blending finances. Like I get that psychologically. But like if you're like, oh, we'll take turns like, oh, well, you know, you pay this time. I pay this time. What's your advice to a girl who's who the guy she's currently seeing? He says that, oh, do not marry that man. But here's the thing. I feel like they should always break off or correct. They should offer. They should pull out the credit card. Just, just to offer. No, it's a, it's a nice job. No, no. By the way. No, no, no. This is, this is, this is feminism. Feminism is that you have to be this like self-independent. This is a nice gesture. It's you trying to be like egalitarian. No US woman should want to be provided for. In fact, you should have an expectation that you as a woman are so important and so critical and so necessary and beautiful that it shouldn't even be a question. When I was dating, it would be a huge turnoff if the check comes and she just looks at it and then looks at me and looks at the check.
男人在任何情况下都不该让女人为约会买单，这点你必须明白。哪怕是第三次、第四次、第五次约会。那如果是初次约会，你压根没打算认真发展呢？好吧，让我把话说完。我们现在究竟活在什么世道？稍等，我同意你的观点。如果我和女孩约会，我会承担所有开销。所有。对，所有。不过我能理解，有些人经济状况可能不同。比如你付了十次约会费用后，她说想请你一次。那情况就完全不同了。我们现在讨论的是那种"轮流买单"的模式，这就很离谱。如果她是想特意请你吃顿大餐，这倒能理解。况且如果是以结婚为前提交往，财务本就在慢慢融合，这种心理我懂。但如果是"这次你付，下次我付"这种模式——对于正在交往的男性提出AA制的女孩，你有什么建议？我的建议是：别嫁给这种人。但关键在于，我觉得女性应该主动提出分手，或者至少表明态度。她们应该掏出信用卡主动示意。不，这其实是种体贴的表现。等等，这不叫女权主义。女权主义要求女性经济独立，但主动买单是表达平等态度的善意举动。美国女性不该总指望被供养。事实上，你应该自信地认为，作为女性你本身足够重要、足够珍贵、足够美好，这根本不该成为问题。我以前约会时，最倒胃口的就是账单送来时，女方只是盯着账单，然后看看我，又看看账单。
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