回复：迄今为止我见过最有水平的小三宣言。

That's my suspicion on how some 小三 can ever exist...there's a Chinese saying, "CangYing BuDing Wufeng De Dan", in another word,rotten eggs attract flies ...there must be something for the 小三 s to be dwelling on.

--Is it the man himself the rotten egg, or the marriage itself? Or else it's the wife?

If it's just " a mistake" the hu*****and makes, we shall and will try to figure out what has gone wrong that causes the "mistake" to be made--is it just a" mistake' , or it is who he really is? For the first we shall try to forgive and work together to make the marriage work( isn't that 'everybody deserves a second chance'? :) :). But if it's the second, we shall make up our mind on what the best interests of the whole group is--the children, and us, the wife.
I'd chose a divorce, of course. But if staying in the marriage is a better choice(financially) for the children and the wife, so be it. --Just don't ever think you can change a person! And don't ever attempt to either! Also, don't ever be resentful, which is most important. Because it is us who choose to stay in a marriage, in which we know we'll never be the only partner of the other half ...

For the sake of our children, and for the sake of our own life, don't hate. For hatre is such an evil thing, it drags everything down ...you will end up spending your whole life hating some one, then resentfulness and hatre will become the most familiar emotion to your children ...don't we have something else better to do? Don't we say, " we stay in the marriage because of the children"... if it is true, prove it, by living a healthy life of your own.

And, if it's us, the wife, who causes such a " sensation"...well, I don't know what to say...

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Please don't "hate" me either. :) :) --spend the time loving your children, yourself, your life, AND the good hu*****and as well,instead.

Good luck to us all.

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