回复：灰暗的天空，灰暗的心情。为什么感情如此脆弱？？？

Divorce is bad, but maybe not that bad as you thinking, maybe better than putting your children in unhealthy family environment. I had same feeling as yours 5 years ago when my ex wanted to divorce, but now when I looking back, things are not that bad as I thought at all. I married again 2 years ago, just had a lovely little girl. My new wife has better temper and also I learned some lesson from my previous mirrage, so now we have very happy life. I also have very good relationship with my son too. I live close to my ex and my son, every Friday when I go to pick up my son at his school, he is very excited, I take him to sport events, movies and play video games on weedend ... Divorce can never stop you loving your kids. As time past, now my ex and I are like friends, we work together to do the best for my son. From what you said, I believe your wife had been struggling too, no one wants to divroce especially a woman of her age with two kids. As your wife already made the decision, you need to be brave and face the fact, and do the best for your kids of the worst. Divorce is not the end of the world, you can still love your kids, be the strong father, take the responsibility, give as much as you can to your kids, they need you as always. When they grow up. they will understand, and I believe they will be proud of you. Be strong and take care!