Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. (Genesis 2:24, Holy Bible)
儒家人伦关系里强调的不一样,讲究上下分明,所以“十年媳妇熬成婆”在某一种社会形态里就成了常态。
人生活在当下。以我的浅见,孩子大了就放手,尊重他们成年的权利,不要无谓地以“为你好”的名义,造成他们精神上的痛苦。 夫妻有缘,就恩爱到头,也不必去纠结他/她成长路上遭遇的是好人还是坏人。 若经济上有了纠纷,就打打算盘,别扯感情。若论感情,就别扯义务。
简单粗暴发完言,我去干活去了。