U just interpret whatever good for you to be a good thing; whatever does not fit u as the mistake from chinese culture. I do not see a single person who truly love 基督 will say such mean words against his/her parents. U r lost, either Chinese culuture or 基督文明.
In certain way i feel really sorry for you. As mentioned b4, i do not like most of your posts. After reading ur posts on ur parents, I truly feel sorry for you. It is not uncommon that a person got abused in childhood will have certain twisted thoughts. I know u may not like what I am saying now, but I truly hope u can walk out from the 泥潭 soon. The negative thoughts in your brain/heart will only hurt you and your family; even though you may not admit or know it.