回复：又看了ＬＺ 别的贴，我的结论：你劳工是精神虐待。需要治疗。

You said it. I was abused both vobally and physically, so I divorced that WSN. He was confused, why did I divorce him? I felt so much better after divorce, although my financial situation was horrible in the first few years in USA when I just came to school with my child (He was in China, I came out myself for school, then brought my child out). 13 years latter when my child got married, he came for wedding ceremoney, he told me he did not pursue other women for many years after divorce, and it sounded disgusting to me. Who cares what he did after divorce?