karezza

Sex without orgasm. Plenty of women are familiar with it, though not by choice.
But sex without orgasm could be a blessing in disguise for unsatisfied lovers.

A new form of intercourse called karezza is sweeping bedrooms across the continent, and there is no climax at the finish line.
Far from it - the new relationship craze focuses on affection over orgasm. The big "O" isn't the point. In fact, it's discouraged. It's described as a more "spiritual" way of making love - "love meditation."

But is it as satisfying without a grand finale?
Matt Cook, a 51-year-old publisher from Virginia who spoke to ABC News about karezza, said his sex life is more exciting than ever after 25 years of marriage.
"It creates a deep feeling in a relationship that is very difficult to describe -- much deeper than conventional sex," said Cook.
Cook is one of many men who have embraced karezza as a means of overcoming addiction and emotional challenges, as well as helping to heal marriages.

Despite appearances, many who practise karezza insist it adds a new spark to their relationship and sex life.
And though a more prolonged and emotional form of sex may seem stereotypically geared toward women, a counsellor who uses it to help couples heal relationships reports men are generally more excited about karezza.

"The people most interested are men," Deb Feitech of Portland, Maine, told ABC News. "It's very radical for them, but they are finding the emotional intimacy far outweighs any of the thrill of the chase and the mating mind."

Dr. Alice Bunker Stockman first used the term karezza in 1896 when she wrote a book by that name, taken from the Italian word carezza, which means caress. Stockman was a Chicago obstetrician and early feminist who promoted "male continence", essentially, abstaining from orgasm, though she included women as well out of equality.
The theory and teachings of karezza were carried on again in Marina L. Robinson's 2009 book, Cupid's Poisoned Arrow.

"Orgasm really isn't in our genitals, but actually between our ears," Robinson said.
According to Robinson, karezza keeps the hormone dopamine from crashing - a feel-good chemical the body produces in anticipation of sex that sinks almost immediately after orgasm.
But if there is no orgasm, the body won't experience the same type of crash - similar to a withdrawal - following sex.

"It kind of never ends," Cook told ABC. " Why would I want to give that up for a 15-second orgasm?"

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• 感觉是老头子才会喜欢的东西。年轻或猛男人才不屑于这个。 -planchanges- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/14/2012 postreply 12:33:11