Love ourself first-in a relationship.前两天和LG吵架和朋友倾诉时谈到关于关系长久后相互失去

来源: julie116 2011-10-03 14:25:38 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 次 (656 bytes)

对对方很苛刻. 朋友的反映是"Relationships can be difficult. I understand the need to be attracted to your spouse. I myself spend 2 hours a day to workout, jogging, yoga and martial arts. I believe that if you do not look after your body where are you going to live? I have a friend right now that is unhappy in his marriage. He has lost his attraction to his wife. She was very energetic when they got married. But after being married, she stopped looking after herself. So he is feeling let down."不是什么名言,到觉得是事实.所以,关系中出现问题时我们有时可以转移一下精力提高,改变自我...控制自己比改变别人容易,从自身获得更多满足感后再考虑是否换伴侣吧:)

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所以总听别人说两个人要共同成长,精神的和physical 的。 -lavendar99- 给 lavendar99 发送悄悄话 lavendar99 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/03/2011 postreply 14:37:22

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