回复：你的老公太伟大了，景仰之！我们两口肯定做不来的！

You don't know how long to make me to think about this, I was struggling for almost a year! Because people around me tell me bad story. That makes me hesitate.

Their dead line is coming soon, so I have to make decision.

Can people tell me more successful story for how to taking care their family when they come to US?  

I have my purpose to get them over, I want to have good relationship with them, so we can take care each other in the future, who want a lonely life here?

Living China is my dream, but the more I come back China, the more I feel the distance. So sad, is’it?

Again thanks for giving me a lot of feedback! A lot of suggestion