it could be worse, like someone I know of, the hu*****and does not make much, even less than what the wife makes, but still, does not do much house work, does not help much, spend most of time by himself, doing his own thing (claiming for a better life in future , but who knows ) ... the wife, do a full time job, main bread maker, also taking care of two kids most of time all by herself. What a world!