回复:怎么讲?能具体说说么?谢谢!

来源: N. 2009-12-13 23:24:54 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读: 0 次 (1199 bytes)
It is too slow for me to type Chinese, sorry for using English.

Basically, nobody can really tell which is the "right" investment method (save in the bank or invest in stock). So, either of you could be wrong. If you just leave each other alone to make individual investment decision, for a family, it is diversification. Diversification is good, recommended by almost all financial advisers. (And you won't know the real result till 30/40 years later...)

However, there will be problems if you have big difference on how to spend money. For example, one want to borrow tons of money to buy a big house, fancy cars and spend on luxury items regularly; the other one only want to live a moderate life based on income and have rainy day savings. If this is the case, you will have conflicts regularly, which could hurt marriage.

I recommend talking about financial issues before getting married. Have a general idea on how to share the expense on daily life, buying house, raising children (e.g., shall the wife keep working after child is born),... Then, as far as both parties are reasonable/flexible, marriage won't be affected by investment decisions.

Good luck.

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谢谢!也就是说,消费观念才是真正make difference的地方 -xushaoyan- 给 xushaoyan 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/13/2009 postreply 23:57:52

Open a joint account to cover house related, kid realted... -ryr- 给 ryr 发送悄悄话 (74 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 07:42:05

well said! -winnie09- 给 winnie09 发送悄悄话 (84 bytes) () 12/14/2009 postreply 07:58:48

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