And how is your living style comparing to your hu*****and's income? And how many nephews/nieces potential needs this money?
One thing you can do to avoid future such "borrowing" is to tell all your relatives that this $40K is used for all the kids when they need financial support proof.
One thing you can do to avoid future such "borrowing" is to tell all your relatives that this $40K is used for all the kids when they need financial support proof.