Interesting case.

Your friend lacks some social sense. You have strong social sense. You are afraid of saying no to a friend and this unreasonable friend is causing you pain. Put it simple. You have to tell her something directly such as “Normally I welcome friends to come to my house and join us for dinner. But if they come very often, it’s better everybody take a dish with them so I don’t have to cook that much.” But now you are going to have a baby soon, so you don’t even need to say those, instead you can just say “ I will give birth soon, and now is a special period for our family. We have tons of things to prepare for our baby; I don’t want to have a party. When I have time and energy I will have a party for our friends. And you can come.”

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这个回答好! -猪立叶- 给 猪立叶 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/01/2006 postreply 08:19:38

不够治本 -Ash- 给 Ash 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/01/2006 postreply 08:21:41

谢谢你的建议很好,我想我会借鉴的用两句的,嘿嘿。 -庞家媳妇- 给 庞家媳妇 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/01/2006 postreply 08:22:32

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