If you follow him this time, later,without much hesitation, he may choose to go back China for "development" after you have kids, after he gets bored in the small town, leaving you alone in the middle of nowhere ... :)
Stay where u are, if he loves and cares about you, he will come over. Otherwise, let the marriage die by itself in 6 months or a year.
Stay where u are, if he loves and cares about you, he will come over. Otherwise, let the marriage die by itself in 6 months or a year.