Don't think too much. It is

not that serious. And don't talk to him about it either. You can tease him about it if you want to talk about it to him. Take it easy even though they may really and truly love each other as long as you and your hu*****and still love each ohter, too and appreciate your family. Remember every one loves more than just one person in their life, sometimes even at the same time. No big deal. It is very normal. It is not always bad when people has passion and love even to others rather than to wife and hu*****and. In certerin circumstance, it is good. It is good because he/she enjoys life. You should enjoy life too. You also should make yourself more beautiful, charming and attractive in different way if you love your hu*****and and love your family and I guess you do. Every one has their own beauty, charm and attractiveness in their own way as long as he/she really and turly enjoys life and know how. Good lucky. No big deal.