回复：觉得这里的人还真诚，所以想问一声，对于一个40多岁的老女人，

You are not an old lady yet. I know some of my friends found their Mr. Right after 40. There are plenty of ways to meet your potential significant half. I think join the local single club, go to the local Chinese ball room dance will gave you more chance to more single people. If you don’t think a inter-racial marriage is a problem, then post your profile in the dating net (i.e. match.com, eharmory.com, etc) will work as well. There are lots of single white guys in your age and are willing to settle down. Just give yourself a chance, I am sure you will find your true love. Best wishes.