well, ....

I do want to keep the child. But she wants too.

My problem is even when she gives two childrten to me,
I will be in a dilemaa:

I have J-1 visa.

The two children are too young. I can not take care of them
wh while working. But if I send them back to China, I almost
no longer be able to go back because of that shit visa....

What should I do?

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• 送回去也许是对你最好的办法, 没有过不去的火焰山, -stp- ♀ (54 bytes) () 05/24/2004 postreply 15:39:52

• 回复：well, .... -davidwu70- ♀ (1269 bytes) () 05/24/2004 postreply 18:28:43

• 回复：回复：well, .... -xucc- ♀ (472 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 06:13:04

• 回复：回复：回复：well, .... -davidwu70- ♀ (782 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 07:15:15

• 回复：回复：回复：回复：well, .... -xucc- ♀ (1098 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 14:33:01

• Actually , I am -xucc- ♀ (285 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 15:08:02

• From career point of view, -xucc- ♀ (163 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 15:09:38

• Go to church is a good choice! -davidwu70- ♀ (668 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 18:50:14

• she is not such a person -xucc- ♀ (239 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 07:06:28

• try to find some nice church f -friends...- ♀ (516 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 07:22:46

• I have tried this for several -xucc- ♀ (32 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 08:06:10

• 既然是这样，为什么不joint custody? 你们每人各 -也来说说，，- ♀ (124 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 13:55:29

• it's not up to the father, so -jointcusto- ♀ (230 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 18:26:52