回复：回复：回复：回复：well, ....

if she support me, I think most likely I will be able
to stay in USA.

But if things goes like this for long time, I can not be sucessful
at all, even if I am very able.

IN that case, all good idea is gone from my mind. How
can I survive in such competitive society?

But it is easy for me to find a job in China, no matter
what time it could be: Be it now or 3 years later. It
does not matter.

She will leave me if she really can be independent.
Or she will find a ready new boyfirend. Then divorce me,
and marry that guy.

She is good in stepping on two boats.

I want to take her home, to save marriage. But she definately
won;t go.

And even if I go back to China, she will still be unstable.
She can connect other guy though internet like what she
is doing now.


I think once she meets American guy face to face, I will
no longer ask her back. (And probalby she won't go back
either)

I will leave this to God.