She does not have a job now.
But she thinks she will be a good photographer in the near future.
Right now, she is making good use of me to develop herself.
She has already spent at least 7000 $ in that .
I think when she think she is "independent" enough
she will leave me.
It is indeed not up to me. I can not start the divorce
in any way even though I know that she is using me.