回复：回复：well, ....

her visa is j2 visa.

She does not have a job now.

But she thinks she will be a good photographer in the near future.

Right now, she is making good use of me to develop herself.

She has already spent at least 7000 $ in that .

I think when she think she is "independent" enough
she will leave me.

It is indeed not up to me. I can not start the divorce
in any way even though I know that she is using me.