You have a hidden agenda but

everybody already figured that out.  I read your previous posts.  When you asked for direct reports, your boss knew your intention is not to get the job done but to build your own team to increase your "influence".  When you suggest making changes to process or clearly define your JD, people know your true intention is to define "who direct who", "who talk to who", the fact that you do not feel secured made you hungry for power, over calculated in dealing with colleagues,  unfortunately, you did not hide your agenda that well, everybody figured that out.  Nobody likes a over ambitious, over calculated and abrasive co-worker in their team, that is way people in your team did not even give you a warm goodbye lunch.

Sorry, I may too harsh on you but that how I feel.

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我觉得你说的还是有些道理。 -拉兄弟一把- 给 拉兄弟一把 发送悄悄话 (763 bytes) () 08/19/2015 postreply 23:16:25

我没那么雄心大志,不然我不会在没下家的时候主动提出辞职。。。。。要人要产品都是A给我出的主意啊。。。。 -wolikeyou- 给 wolikeyou 发送悄悄话 (1767 bytes) () 08/19/2015 postreply 23:38:40

你说了那么多,都是怪别人。什么都是A或者老板的错。连雇个人,都假想老板要害你,其实你自己连最基本的责任分配都搞不清楚, -Tove- 给 Tove 发送悄悄话 Tove 的博客首页 (61 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 00:20:38

我怪别人了么?我就陈述事实而已 -wolikeyou- 给 wolikeyou 发送悄悄话 (847 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 01:32:03

妹妹我说你一句别生气,也许你主观上在找原因,但从旁观者的角度看你在找借口。 -废话多多- 给 废话多多 发送悄悄话 废话多多 的博客首页 (159 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 04:12:11

The manpower plan in your dept. -bjhaigui- 给 bjhaigui 发送悄悄话 (956 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 07:22:22

我的职业计划不是当个data analyst,所以在招人的过程中,我也游说大家招个有统计背景的人 -wolikeyou- 给 wolikeyou 发送悄悄话 (3443 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 10:14:22

Things you cared about are: -bjhaigui- 给 bjhaigui 发送悄悄话 (1310 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 12:01:11

恩,你分析得太对了,我犯了错误,只是没有意识到。 我在心理上藐视了他们。尽管我在有些问题上表面上服从 -wolikeyou- 给 wolikeyou 发送悄悄话 (2202 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 13:15:11

关于expert,说的太精辟了,学到了:) -天蝎- 给 天蝎 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/21/2015 postreply 00:28:00

你写的好像蛮复杂,只是自己想干什么,该怎么干,自己应该很清楚吧,为什么会被别人寄着鼻子走 -arcsigh- 给 arcsigh 发送悄悄话 (182 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 10:27:58

这个其实我也知道。细细分析,自己的言行举止,都是自己判断后做出后的行动。无关他人的影响,无论结局如何,都是自己的选择。 -wolikeyou- 给 wolikeyou 发送悄悄话 (129 bytes) () 08/20/2015 postreply 13:18:59

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