分享经历:Today turns out to be a pretty good day! (冗长,不喜勿入)

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好久没写这么长的东东了,当消遣看着玩吧。3151美眉想去toastmaster的话可以参考一下。

注:native speaker还没给读过,所以欢迎建设性砖头,请勿打分。

As some of you may know, I have been planning to join Toastmaster to practice public speaking, and to get out the house as well. Last Thursday I went to visit one club and was planning to visit another one this Friday.  But today, I went to the same club and had a great experience.

Early today, during our monthly meeting, I was talking on the phone with my mentor, Richard, who has been going to Toastmaster for 5 years and has recently become a governor of his county’s toastmaster clubs. Richard shared with me his experience of being a toastmaster member, and how he didn’t feel the butterflies any more when he was caught up to give a speech right on the spot.  He said: “People always say that the butterflies never go away.  You manage them. You get to a stage where you can let your butterflies fly in formation. For me, I don’t get butterflies anymore.”  I said, (trying to be smart, :) ), “so your butterflies have flown away in formation.”  We laughed.  

My plan was to visit two clubs, decide on one of them and go there regularly as a member. I told him about my plan and asked him if it’s ok to visit the same club again, he said yes.  So off I went. I was a little late as I went there on a last minute decision. They had already started. I went in at the “Word of the Day”, which is a long word: interdigitation, meaning holding hands. As a toastmaster practice, everyone is encouraged to use the “Word of the Day” during the meeting.  

As usual, there are two prepared speeches. The first speaker talked about internet hacking and the Anthony Weiner’s scandal.  I was very happy about the topic as I have been following the imbroglio (:)). It was an interesting talk, but a little bit too long. He actually went over the 7-minute-time limit by talking for more than 10 minutes, which disqualified him from the voting for the best speaker. The best speaker automatically became the second speaker, whose speech was given as a PowerPoint presentation. It was a great speech titled “Unfreeze yourself”.  (note: Each prepared toastmaster speech has an aspect of public speaking that you want to work on.) For this second speech, it was to use visual aids to enhance the speech. The speaker did a great job showing an experiment:  he put a piece of hard paper on top of a glass, and a couple of coins on the paper. When he pushed the paper away, the coins dropped into the glass.  He used this experiment to demonstrate the concept of “Inertia”: the coins did not slide with the paper, but instead stayed in the same place and dropped into the glass when the paper was moved away. Everyone of us, like the coins, are resistant to changes.  I thought it was a very powerful visual image.

After that, it was the table topics session, in which you have to give a one-to-two-minute speech on the spot when called by the Mr./Madame table topics.  Normally, Mr./Madame table topics ask the visitors whether they want to participate. Last time when I was asked, I chickened out as I was nervous and the theme wasn’t a familiar one.  This time the theme was “moving”. I agreed to speak, while butterflies fluttering rapidly in my stomach. I talked about the longest moving I experienced, coming to the US from China 12 years ago. I got a little emotional when I said: “ I called my mom at the layover in Shanghai and said to my mom: this is going to be the last time I talk to you while I am in China.”(now I think, it is actually not true, since I have gone back. hehe) Then I talked about my best moving when we moved from an apartment to our house and became a house owner.  I used the word “holding hands” (Interdigitation) when I said the first night in our house, my hu*****and and I were holding hands and enjoying the house with many moving boxes.  

I felt pretty good about the speech. It was within the time limit: 1 minute 45 second. I used the word of the day. In toastmaster meetings, there are always an Ah-counter (whose responsibility is to count how many times you say fillers like ah… ok.. You know…  ), and a grammarian. The Ah-counter reported that I had 6 ah’s and the grammarian said, despite my nervousness, I did not make any grammatical mistake. Woohoo, that’s great as you guys know how much I hate grammatical mistakes.

The best part of the meeting: I was voted the “Best Table Topics” from the five speakers!  They give me two little cute banners, one for “Guest”, one for “Best Table Topics”. This is quite a big step for me: to stand up and give a speech, and get a “Best Table Topics” banner.

I could feel my adrenaline running high as I was driving home, thinking:  actually, today turns out to be a pretty good day!

 

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俺二姐在吗?看到帖子吱一声 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 15:58:06

同问候北京二号,夏天快乐。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:12:09

真巧,我昨晚梦见二姐了......北京五棵松...... :) -千与.千寻- 给 千与.千寻 发送悄悄话 千与.千寻 的博客首页 (265 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:51:16

小千呀,如果北京二号看到你的留言,一定会好感动呢。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (59 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:31:08

二姐看到不掉眼泪才怪!小千真能煽~~ -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:33:15

自己看到have went back,真丢人! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:03:54

You are a perfectionist,aren't you? -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:18:29

呵呵,with some stuff, like grammar, yes. -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:20:15

回复:分享经历:Today turns out to be a pretty good day! (冗长,不喜勿入) -i999- 给 i999 发送悄悄话 i999 的博客首页 (65 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:09:08

谢谢老相好,一起学习! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:10:59

Well-written. Wow, "Best Table Topics" speaker,congratulation. -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (121 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:10:08

谢谢紫君!你读得真快!这个词好像用于比较抽象的意义时候多。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:14:18

真怪,一编辑format变不好看了。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:31:15

回复:真怪,一编辑format变不好看了。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (266 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:39:13

哦,是因为我不是在博客里编辑的。我直接在这个帖子上编辑的。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (21 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:45:31

回复:哦,是因为我不是在博客里编辑的。我直接在这个帖子上编辑的。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (215 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:48:45

Oops, 更正:我想说的是“在论坛里编辑”: -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (215 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 18:14:16

我现在又可以欣赏到你的文章了,一如既往的好看。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:56:35

好文,谢谢分享。filler words, 上次我听成了failing words,呵呵 -金迷- 给 金迷 发送悄悄话 金迷 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:44:49

咱纠音以后就听清楚了,呵呵。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 16:52:42

挺好的经历 -DCH- 给 DCH 发送悄悄话 (203 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 17:34:36

我那天正想跟你说呢,你应该去toastmaster,练练挺好的,收获很大。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (128 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 17:43:49

耐丝,恭喜走出第一步!那你就打算去这家了吗? -cha-cha- 给 cha-cha 发送悄悄话 cha-cha 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 18:39:42

恩,差不多 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (47 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:27:40

你演讲的时候觉得比以前流利了吗?语调有没有进步? -cha-cha- 给 cha-cha 发送悄悄话 cha-cha 的博客首页 (64 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:43:34

流利不流利现在都不记得啦呀!语调更是跑到9箫云外啊 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (71 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:26:58

哦,还没回完,不同的club好像规矩不一定一样。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (134 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:39:50

我觉得你的语法比an-counter的语法水平高,他当然听不出来你的grammatical mistakes了! -千与.千寻- 给 千与.千寻 发送悄悄话 千与.千寻 的博客首页 (205 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:47:04

typo: ah-counter -千与.千寻- 给 千与.千寻 发送悄悄话 千与.千寻 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:48:08

你太高看我了,小千。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (59 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:30:13

Good job! You're a big fish now. -EnLearner- 给 EnLearner 发送悄悄话 EnLearner 的博客首页 (174 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:47:40

哈哈哈,愚公太搞笑了。演讲一次就变大鱼了? -cha-cha- 给 cha-cha 发送悄悄话 cha-cha 的博客首页 (77 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 19:57:25

Great! Good luck in the big pond! -EnLearner- 给 EnLearner 发送悄悄话 EnLearner 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:00:41

文大鱼?K!说我胖,我听出来了。哈哈 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:31:38

Oops, 我原来是在回茶茶的话。不小心还以为是回菲(非肥耶)教授呢。 -EnLearner- 给 EnLearner 发送悄悄话 EnLearner 的博客首页 (127 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:04:47

好啊!鱼教授,又找抽!这次写作我把你当砖模! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:14:40

我第一次table topic的时候,讲了13个ah, 自己还完全都没意识到~ -jennea- 给 jennea 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:20:20

是滴是滴,我也一点儿没意识到。 -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (88 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:37:21

我讲到第三个,参加了半年了。但最近两个月没有去了,因为忙。 准备speech,很费时的。 -jennea- 给 jennea 发送悄悄话 (96 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 20:45:42

要继续一定要继续! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (136 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:09:35

not already,I meant “around” -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:33:24

好吧,继续!It is difficult for me to come up with interesting speech -jennea- 给 jennea 发送悄悄话 (60 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 22:26:26

great writing. clear and smooth. public speaking is daunting to -hahaman- 给 hahaman 发送悄悄话 hahaman 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:36:16

daunting to me? -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (32 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:41:00

to all of us -hahaman- 给 hahaman 发送悄悄话 hahaman 的博客首页 (168 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 21:55:04

haha, great point! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (51 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 22:03:09

Wow,雷厉风行(不长,喜,入):-) -北京二号- 给 北京二号 发送悄悄话 北京二号 的博客首页 (581 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 23:12:23

我的二姐啊,你乐死我了! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (191 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 23:29:08

青儿好,周末快乐。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (41 bytes) () 06/24/2011 postreply 06:36:39

紫儿好,周末愉快too! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/24/2011 postreply 09:46:47

五个女人一个梦,趣意盎然。祝北京二号夏天快乐。 -紫君- 给 紫君 发送悄悄话 紫君 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/24/2011 postreply 06:34:26

太短啦,还不过瘾呢! -beautifulwind- 给 beautifulwind 发送悄悄话 (116 bytes) () 06/23/2011 postreply 23:43:20

Thanks 文青, 好文! -学英语3151- 给 学英语3151 发送悄悄话 (124 bytes) () 06/24/2011 postreply 09:11:15

I think you are ready to go there. Good luck! -非文学青年- 给 非文学青年 发送悄悄话 非文学青年 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 06/24/2011 postreply 09:44:06

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