APAD: Actions speak louder than words

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Meaning
What you do is more important and shows your intentions and feelings more clearly than what you say.

Origin
The origin of the idiom is found in literature and is hundreds of years old. This interesting and meaningful statement was first seen in Gersham Bulkeley’s book Will and Doom, published in 1692: “Actions are more significant than words.” It has been a very popular idiom ever since.
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Humans probably are the most talkative ones among all the animals.  We talk for any reason, or no reason at all.  Lots of times, even when we listen, we don't listen to understand but to respond so we can talk more.  But, when we talk too much, not only we may not be able to do what we say, we lose the ability to observe and to better understand each other.

Just as I thought I had talked enough, Hanks, the dog from our next door neighbor started "talking".  Aright, it's his turn now.  鬼脸

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To an economist: like your theory but show me your portfolio -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 09:00:06

haha, the fact is most of theirs don't beat the index ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 11:54:17

能成为大佬的都是人狠话不多的狠人 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 09:52:54

是啊,《周易》云:“吉人寡言语,躁人之辞多。” ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 11:55:33

Great quote! I'll shorten it to 吉人寡言, 躁人辞多 to help remember. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 12:22:24

Empty vessels make much noise -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 13:04:11

So true! -CBA7- 给 CBA7 发送悄悄话 CBA7 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 10:22:13

Thx, 小西! -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 11:56:07

It's true, actions speak louder than words; however -甜虫虫- 给 甜虫虫 发送悄悄话 甜虫虫 的博客首页 (384 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 10:41:42

well said, can't agree more! Thx. -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 11:57:37

:) -甜虫虫- 给 甜虫虫 发送悄悄话 甜虫虫 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 12:44:49

So,it may appear as“cold hands,warm heart”:) -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 12:45:18

Right! Never judge people by their hands' temperature ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 12:55:28

I second that. An alternative saying: Deeds, not words. -瓷善家- 给 瓷善家 发送悄悄话 瓷善家 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 13:29:18

yes, but no "window-smashing and arson" as by WSPU ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 15:06:21

btw, I just watched Ur "farm-to-table" and liked it. :-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 15:07:50

Thanks for watching and glad you liked it! -瓷善家- 给 瓷善家 发送悄悄话 瓷善家 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 17:28:01

只有我羡慕别人能说会道吗? -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 17:08:36

当然白云,如果能说会道的人同时也都能做的到,那就是难得的全才了哈。不然的话还是比较喜欢靠谱的 ;-) -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/20/2024 postreply 17:40:42

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