APAD:When life gives you lemons, make lemonade

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When life gives you lemons, make lemonade is a proverbial phrase used to encourage optimism and a positive can-do attitude in the face of adversity or misfortune. Lemons suggest sourness or difficulty in life; making lemonade is turning them into something positive or desirable.

Origins

The sentiment has often been expressed in varying words. Its first known print use, as attributed to Christian anarchist writer Elbert Hubbard in 1909 in Literary Digest, reads: "A genius is a man who takes the lemons that Fate hands him and starts a lemonade-stand with them." He also used it in a 1915 obituary he penned and published for dwarf actor Marshall Pinckney Wilder. The obituary, entitled The King of Jesters, praises Wilder's optimistic attitude and achievements in the face of his disabilities:

"He was a walking refutation of that dogmatic statement, Mens sana in corpore sano. His was a sound mind in an unsound body. He proved the eternal paradox of things. He cashed in on his disabilities. He picked up the lemons that Fate had sent him and started a lemonade-stand."

Although the first two known uses in print are by Hubbard, many modern authors attribute the expression to Dale Carnegie who used it in his 1948 book How to Stop Worrying and Start Living. Carnegie's version reads:

"If You Have a Lemon, Make a Lemonade."

 

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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. It's about -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:17:49

learning how to dance in the rain. -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:18:29

人生不是等着暴风雨过去,而是学会在风雨中跳舞 ~~ -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 06:19:42

难道不是赶紧先找shelter? -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 08:13:03

也是理科僧吧?跟一张 -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (82 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:04:43

very inspiring. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:04:50

九十年代我老公从深圳出差回家特意带了新奇水果柠檬和榴莲。都被我仍进垃圾桶了。一个太酸,一个太臭。 -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:09:50

凡是鼓足勇气吃榴莲的,据说都会吃上瘾 -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 08:11:55

是不是和吃臭豆腐一样? -方外居士- 给 方外居士 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:01:18

榴莲,菠萝蜜,臭豆腐都是我喜欢哒,柠檬除外~~ -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:06:10

真被你说中了。我后来听一个在新加坡工作了几年的亲戚说榴莲很好吃。到了加拿大看有卖的。我买后捏着鼻子吃进去。一不小心上瘾了 -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:10:50

赞一个!很有哲理. We may never have what we want in life, but -最西边的岛上- 给 最西边的岛上 发送悄悄话 最西边的岛上 的博客首页 (113 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 07:52:41

always leverage and make full use of what we have already. 赞 -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 09:06:56

While chasing non-lemon, keep the lemonade recipe. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 08:56:39

Exactly ! :) -Oona- 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 Oona 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 12:53:23

Lemon is a secret weapon to make the pretty Mango cake~ -妖妖灵- 给 妖妖灵 发送悄悄话 妖妖灵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 13:02:03

He cashed in on his disabilities. +1 给你什么就享受什么:)酸甜苦辣:) -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 01/18/2024 postreply 18:15:59

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