APAD: Laugh and the world laughs with you; weep and you weep

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alone.

Meaning:

Look happy as people are attracted to happiness but repelled by misery.

 

Background:

 

This expression was coined by American poet Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850-1919) in

her poem "Solitude" (1883):

 

    Laugh, and the world laughs with you;

    Weep, and you weep alone.

    For the sad old earth must borrow it's mirth,

    But has trouble enough of its own.

    Sing, and the hills will answer;

    Sigh, it is lost on the air.

    The echoes bound to a joyful sound,

    But shrink from voicing care.

    

    Rejoice, and men will seek you;

    Grieve, and they turn and go.

    They want full measure of all your pleasure,

    But they do not need your woe.

    Be glad, and your friends are many;

    Be sad, and you lose them all.

    There are none to decline your nectared wine,

    But alone you must drink life's gall.

    

    Feast, and your halls are crowded;

    Fast, and the world goes by.

    Succeed and give, and it helps you live,

    But no man can help you die.

    There is room in the halls of pleasure

    For a long and lordly train,

    But one by one we must all file on

    Through the narrow aisles of pain.

 

 

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True but a bit sad. Anyway, Happy Monday! :) -CBA7- 给 CBA7 发送悄悄话 CBA7 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:25:01

Thanks but truth should never sadden us. Happy Monday! -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:30:06

Nice poem, and I'll taste it in depth later. -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:37:10

I've not wept since I was 12. Maybe not healthy... -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:39:00

weeping is known to be cathartic -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:14:33

Same here. I love it. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:13:58

weep and the world laughs at you -移花接木- 给 移花接木 发送悄悄话 移花接木 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 09:52:36

sometimes deservedly. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:17:32

楼上三位是好男儿有泪不轻弹呀。佩服一下!不过这样岂不是少了一个疏解压力的办法?:) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (602 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:51:56

有泪不轻弹 is tied to male survival need. Nothing to be proud of. -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 10:55:19

理解。不容易。对于我来说,只有解决了心情,才能解决事情。 -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (248 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:45:48

你若让我“大哭一场”,不如给我根绳儿算了。Truth, nothing to be proud of... -唐宋韵- 给 唐宋韵 发送悄悄话 唐宋韵 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:18:50

眼泪帮助排毒。为了健康,哭吧。吼吼。:)) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:56:47

haha, Laugh and the world may laugh at you -卫宁- 给 卫宁 发送悄悄话 卫宁 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:53:45

世人笑我忒疯颠,我笑世人看不穿 :)) -卫宁- 给 卫宁 发送悄悄话 卫宁 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 11:54:08

Both get a laugh. A win-win :-) -7grizzly- 给 7grizzly 发送悄悄话 7grizzly 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:07:03

噗~~ -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:11:32

是的,个人的十字架需要自己扛。 -Oona- 给 Oona 发送悄悄话 Oona 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 13:55:24

还有一句是,要与喜乐的人同乐;要与哀哭的人同哭。问好Oona。:)) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:13:59

还有一句:先天下之忧而忧,后天下之乐而乐:)) -卫宁- 给 卫宁 发送悄悄话 卫宁 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:52:49

有情怀!:)) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:37:43

Good point. We shall laugh and sing more. -天边一片白云- 给 天边一片白云 发送悄悄话 天边一片白云 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 14:28:02

Sometimes, the world laughs at you. -waterfowl- 给 waterfowl 发送悄悄话 waterfowl 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/11/2023 postreply 16:24:18

那咱就心理强大地朝the world 回翻个白眼呗。礼尚往来。:)) -盈盈一笑间- 给 盈盈一笑间 发送悄悄话 盈盈一笑间 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 05:38:53

Love it! 才来读,可是发现金句多多! -暖冬cool夏- 给 暖冬cool夏 发送悄悄话 暖冬cool夏 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/12/2023 postreply 18:14:10

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