Is this annnoying?

来源: 1234555 于 2004-12-15 10:17:26 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (1526 bytes)

I have a teammate, black woman, 33 years old. Everytime I asked her a question, if she does not know, she will say" do not yell at me". This morning, I asked which printer shop she sent the drawing, because she said she does not sent to the regular printer shop anymore due to the bad quality. then she said " I can not remember. Do not yell at me?" I asked her in a very normal tone, just like any question at work. This happened a lot before, once I asked which drawing I need to open when I helped her, she said same thing. Then the supervisor (teamleader) asked if I helped her, she said "she yelled at me". She likes to making a joke a lot. But still it annoyed me. And I am not in the good mood this morning, so I told her "I did not yell at you. I just ask a simple question. If I just can not ask a question from you, I would not ask any more. I bet you got worse treatment somewhere else, but you need to find the right target". She never said such thing to any other American ever. I am the only one foreigner in the office. She think Asian woman is really soft, a good target, She always make a joke" What do you cook for our lunch" I said" not a thing, not for you". Why should I cook for her? I trid to be professional, but this really annoys me. Did I overreacted? Do I need to talk with her seriously or supervisor or partner? She is very close to them personally. But what if she badmonth me first, say I am not good teamplayer? I do not ahve this problem with any other one. Shall I do something?

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• ur tone is normal -andy- ♂ 给 andy 发送悄悄话 (150 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 10:21:42

• 回复：ur tone is normal -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (568 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 10:31:44

• To me -andy- ♂ 给 andy 发送悄悄话 (553 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 10:45:06

• 回复：To me -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (339 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 11:06:41

• she is joking with u -andy- ♂ 给 andy 发送悄悄话 (61 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 11:09:07

• I agree. I noticed that you 　 -非常刃- ♀ 给 非常刃 发送悄悄话 (391 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 20:25:07

• 回复：I agree. I noticed that you 　 -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (1059 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 07:59:54

• 你是用的升调吗？还有你当时什么表情 -都有关系吧- ♀ 给 都有关系吧 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 10:42:52

• 回复：你是用的升调吗？还有你当时什么表情 -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (389 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 10:58:12

• I will do this if I were you -NoOfferYet- ♀ 给 NoOfferYet 发送悄悄话 (632 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 11:04:44

• 回复：I will do this if I were you -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (274 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 11:12:06

• How do you talk in office? -NoOfferYet- ♀ 给 NoOfferYet 发送悄悄话 (16 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 13:31:55

• It's simple! Next time she ask -Inmyview- ♀ 给 Inmyview 发送悄悄话 (108 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 11:58:15

• Black people like to use -havebeen- ♀ 给 havebeen 发送悄悄话 (42 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 12:50:32

• i don't like too much joke -colala- ♀ 给 colala 发送悄悄话 (77 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 12:57:03

• 回复：i don't like too much joke -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (637 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 13:29:25

• then it is not a joke -andy- ♂ 给 andy 发送悄悄话 (31 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 13:30:53

• Just ask her directly "sorry, -whatmakes- ♀ 给 whatmakes 发送悄悄话 (172 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 18:31:20

• collect evidence, schedule -easytask.- ♀ 给 easytask. 发送悄悄话 (53 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 19:05:54

• my suggestion -真是土包子- ♂ 给 真是土包子 发送悄悄话 (828 bytes) () 12/15/2004 postreply 19:15:01

• 回复：my suggestion -1234555- ♀ 给 1234555 发送悄悄话 (149 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 08:04:06

• 好，明白了症结的所在。祝你能顺利解决这件事情，过一个愉快的新 -非常刃- ♀ 给 非常刃 发送悄悄话 (4 bytes) () 12/16/2004 postreply 20:35:36

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