Can I send a letter to my husband's boss?

来源: mww33 于 2007-11-25 21:04:16 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (908 bytes)

My hu*****and is lack of social skills. He did not like any social conversations and very frank and naive.

A couple weeks ago, he pointed out some things for his boss's presentation in the lab meeting while his boss invited everyone criticizing her presentation. However, my hu*****and got an email from his boss asking him to find another job somewhere. My hu*****and then realized that his talk at the lab meeting offended his boss. He wrote an email to explain that it was just academic discussion and also asked for forgiveness from his boss but on the day before Thanksgiving, his boss still informed him that she would not support him from January.

It is a shock for my family since we just submitted Eb1b( Green card application) this summer, what else can we do to change the boss's decision? The boss is a Caucasian lady. Is it appropriate for me to write a letter to her?

Thanks

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• Is he in a university or company? -xyz731- ♂ 给 xyz731 发送悄悄话 xyz731 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 21:49:19

• A non profit research institute -mww33- ♀ 给 mww33 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 21:55:20

• Is your husband's salary from his boss's grant? -xyz731- ♂ 给 xyz731 发送悄悄话 xyz731 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 21:58:57

• 回复：yes -mww33- ♀ 给 mww33 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:08:48

• 回复：回复：yes -xyz731- ♂ 给 xyz731 发送悄悄话 xyz731 的博客首页 (478 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:17:48

• 俺觉得作为老婆，还是不要出现的好，没意义的 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (370 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:53:41

• 村长兄弟，我觉得他们既然这么难，应该去好好求求别人？ -xyz731- ♂ 给 xyz731 发送悄悄话 xyz731 的博客首页 (102 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 23:03:48

• 俺觉得可以和老板交流，但是效果估计不大 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (488 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 23:19:42

• Yes you can contact your husband's boss -美国老土- ♂ 给 美国老土 发送悄悄话 美国老土 的博客首页 (166 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:04:36

• 找工作吧，基本没戏，你的丈夫犯了几个大的忌讳 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (346 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:10:39

• 呵呵。。。俺的老板符合这条件：) -老妈也恋网- ♀ 给 老妈也恋网 发送悄悄话 老妈也恋网 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 09:24:57

• 请掌柜的读一读: 101 奴隶篇: 老板是俺的饭票. 谢! -美国老土- ♂ 给 美国老土 发送悄悄话 美国老土 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:17:23

• Many thanks to Xyz731,老村长, and 老土. -mww33- ♀ 给 mww33 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 22:57:58

• 还一个办法，或许有用，但是恐怕要费些事情 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (765 bytes) () 11/25/2007 postreply 23:29:14

• 题外话 -胡说之- ♂ 给 胡说之 发送悄悄话 胡说之 的博客首页 (146 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 07:54:13

• email may not be good. but what about a personal -fcxj- ♀ 给 fcxj 发送悄悄话 (1964 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 08:21:01

• One risk: his boss may call police if stopped by her. -iamwrongagain- ♀ 给 iamwrongagain 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 10:31:39

• 这个时候，做妻子的就是给丈夫以精神上的支持，至于写信嘛。。 -老妈也恋网- ♀ 给 老妈也恋网 发送悄悄话 老妈也恋网 的博客首页 (135 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 09:22:50

• appeal to adminstration -virus88- ♀ 给 virus88 发送悄悄话 virus88 的博客首页 (873 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 10:10:13

• 您说的对，但是又不完全对 -爱民屯老村长- ♀ 给 爱民屯老村长 发送悄悄话 (345 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 12:59:46

• HR definitely protect faculty, but other associationa will provi -virus88- ♀ 给 virus88 发送悄悄话 virus88 的博客首页 (163 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 07:09:42

• 回复：Can I send a letter to my husband's boss? -mountainsf- ♀ 给 mountainsf 发送悄悄话 (184 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 10:57:51

• defend yourself -llliii- ♂ 给 llliii 发送悄悄话 llliii 的博客首页 (290 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 14:44:33

• 是先生工作上出现问题, 太太为何急着写信解释? -在线等候- ♀ 给 在线等候 发送悄悄话 (254 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 16:35:37

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