Please give me some advice

First I need to say sorry to you for not able to input Chinese. I'm in a hotel in Miami, and remain sleepless.

My hu*****and and I are both graduate students in us, with about $2000 of monthly income. Our income is not good, plus my hu*****and is a big fun of camera, an expensive habbit, we are always live in the short of money. We are now in a vacation to florida, and to save some money, we have only one meal per day. For the rest of the days, we have some homemade bread and homemade cookies.

Tonight is Christmas eve, so we decided to have a "big night". We had a good dinner in a cubean reastaurant. We even spent the night in a bar, having some drinks, which is the first time for us for the five years living in us. The bar provided hot dancing, and my hu*****and was pretty arosed, that he wanted to go back to hotel to have sex. There is a shuttle bus from the bar and our hotel, but it took a while. Hurry as my hu*****and was, he insisted taking a cab. It took us a whole $20 dollars. Then I was so angry about his money wasting activity that I refused him touching me.

Now he is sleeping alone, sadly. And I am sleepless. I feel sorry ruin such a wonderful night. But on the other hand, I still feel uncomfortable that 20 dollars were wasted. I know I'm cheap. The trip in florida is way more expensive than I'd expacted, and we are under pressure of money....

Now I need some advise. I know I shouldn't punish him by sex, and I'm sorry ruin the night. But how can I get rid of the feeling that when I am working so hard to save some money, by cooking everyday, never eating outside in our town, and making all bread and sources by myself, and he just simply drank for $20, and take a cab for another $20 while bus asked for only $1.

Now I feel even worse. I'm a cheap person, and I'm mean to my hu*****and..... y

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• 哎, 贫贱夫妻百事哀! -如苑- ♀ (229 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 00:26:52

• 现在去睡觉，早上温柔地把他吻醒，做个天翻地覆 -非典型性淑女- ♀ (317 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 01:24:15

• 困难是暂时的,忧愁也是暂时的. -美食人间- ♀ (504 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 02:40:27

• 该享受的时候放宽心享受，银子都是挣来的，花了再去挣 -猫狗大战- ♀ (64 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 02:58:51

• find a new job, your salary is so low. -taylor3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 05:34:03

• 都是这么过来的，２０００一个月已经很好了，要知足啊 -ryanx30- ♂ (28 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 05:36:16

• well, u r on vacation, should spend more and have fun -涩郎- ♂ (30 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 06:41:52

• it is cost too much for $20.... -psychiatrist- ♂ (535 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:15:31

• I remember when go McDonald is a big treat for us -丁庄秀园- ♂ (49 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:18:46

• Same here, still remeber those days, still make me laugh and cry -Apricotseed- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 08:41:30

• 没必要为20元伤和气, 好好过, 和气生财. -wszgr- ♀ (45 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:42:06

• I think your problem is different values, not just money -aabbjoce- ♀ (182 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:45:13

• 我们家情况跟你们家基本一样 -点和线- ♀ (1786 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:50:41

• 我们家的情况也很相似 -m800- ♀ (391 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 08:54:55

• Thank you! -CHEaPPe- ♀ (514 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 07:57:30

• 这坑挖的，从 punish him by sex 到 had nice sex -北京小鸟- ♀ (24 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 08:07:41

• 笨啊你，真够笨的。 -草堂虎妞- ♀ (236 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 08:00:14

• 你应该为有这样的老公感到高兴 他是一个热爱生活的人 -hhhh- ♀ (434 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 08:35:31

• co -forge- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 16:19:25

• Make love, not just have sex -zhuce- ♂ (70 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 09:16:50

• you are a nice person but just stressed by money -tuzhirong- ♀ (274 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 10:12:39

• 有钱度假，应该过得不错 -g-g-n- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 10:44:16

• 回复：Please give me some advice -张小胖- ♀ (455 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 11:15:42

• 去都去了，何不投入地玩个尽兴，把钱花刀口上的事回来再说吧 -绿萝如水- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2008 postreply 13:55:08

• 回复：生活快乐不完全在挣钱/花钱多少，在同甘共苦。休假应该放松，过日子就不同了。 -StillH2ORunDeep- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/26/2008 postreply 05:26:00