有关Eviction和domestic violence的事实(请注意末尾提供证据),谢谢大家的关爱

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Unfortunately, but not unexpectedly, I was notified on July 22, 2016 that the Athens County Court of Appeals journalized its denial of my appeal on July 15, 2016. Given that the appeal conclusion arises from a defective process of logical reasoning and premise of argument that is factually flawed, it seems that the justice system not only flagrantly violates the rule of law and justice by manipulating fact and logic, but also makes no effort to cover/ conceal this desecration of principles and truth.

 

With regards to the appeal opinion, I feel obliged to talk about the eviction that both the jury trial of Sept. 29, 2015 and the appeals opinion of July 15, 2016 take seriously as the background for their decision-making. 

 

Before August 2013, I had worked as an on-campus teaching assistant at MU. In July, 2013, my ex-fiance promised both in verbal and written form (affidavit of support) that he would be responsible for me and that he will do so either until we get married, or until I graduate if we have not yet married then.

 

On reception of the affidavit of support and bank statements from my ex-fiance, MU agreed that I can leave my campus to join my ex-fiance in Ohio while doing my dissertation. Since I came to Ohio in August 2013, I have relied on his promise, because it is illegal for an international student to work off campus.

 

On Feb. 18, 2014, my ex-fiance broke our engagement as a result of his own unfaithful behaviors. From Feb. 2014 to Nov. 2014, my ex-fiance, an Ohio University professor and physician, exerted intentional infliction of starvation and intentional infliction of emotional distress. The domestic violence not only made me hospitalized in late Oct. 2014, but also left me a record of eviction and ultimately resulted in my dismissal from my doctoral program and current illegal immigration status.

 

In Sept and Oct. 2014, my ex-fiance filed a revengeful eviction in response to my request for his fulfilling the affidavit of support. In early Oct. 2014, Judge Grim supported my ex-fiance’s eviction and in the meantime decided that my ex-fiance owed me a net payment of approximately $300 ($4500 in total, with $4200 as an attorney fee). During the jury trial of Sept. 29, 2016, Judge Grim stated that he still remembered me because he supported the eviction by my ex-fiancé against me one year before and that I should be inflicted with a severe punishment given my “bad” history. The same judge made a record in my life: The first civil case record and the first criminal case record during my four decades’ life.

 

Due to my ex-fiance’s refusal to pay my school tuition since 2014 spring semester, my school account had been placed on hold for two semesters (2014 summer and fall) up to Nov. 2014. At the same time, with OU students coming back to school. I lost the opportunity for exchanging my labor for food in a Chinese restaurant where I worked from July 2014 to early Oct. 2014.

 

In Oct. 2015, with the attorney fee of over $2000 pending (I paid $500 in early July 2014 and $1500 in late July 2014) and two semesters’ tuition of around $5000 unpaid, my ex-fiance refused to pay the court judgement of $4500 in Oct. 2014. Instead, he went to Miami for a romantic vacation. During his vacation, I had no way but to try various means to borrow a loan with attempts to resolving my situation.

 

Before I received the loan from my sister’s ex-husband (both of them in China), the long-term domestic violence led to my ultimate loss of consciousness twice a day and temporary blindness for both eyes on Oct. 31, 2014, and then I was sent by ambulance to O’Bleness Hospital. I was diagnosed as anemia, gastritis, depression, and anxiety, given an overnight blood transfusion, and hospitalized for five days.

 

On Nov. 4, 2014, I was discharged from the hospital. When I came back home from hospital, my ex-fiance notified me of an eviction. With nowhere to move to and with no money to pay the rent (I had been waiting for the loan in hospital with no knowledge that the loan arrived on Nov. 4, 2015), I requested my ex-fiance to give me some time and to pay me the court decision as soon as possible. Instead of responding to either of these request, my ex-fiance carried out the eviction immediately with a lady from Athens Municipal court the next day.

 

After I moved out of my ex-fiance’s place on the eviction, I lived subsequently in three different living-rooms shared with some Chinese students. When I paid off the tuition with the loan I received from China and the hold was taken off my school account, I resumed focus on my academic work in Nov. 2014.

 

My effort to regain independence, however, resulted in my being handcuffed, arrested, and charged with trespassing in 2015 when I worked hard on my academic paper in the authorized area with permission from authorized agents. These experiences led to my dismissal from my doctoral program on the same day of the jury trial of Sept. 29, 2015 and to my current illegal immigration status.

 

During the jury trial of Sept. 29, 2015 (Case No: 2015CRB01552), the Athens County Municipal Court decided that I am guilty for the criminal charge of trespassing. My case was submitted to the Court of Appeals of Ohio Fourth Appellate District Athens County in Oct. 2015.

 

On July 15, 2016, not unsurprisingly, the appeals court affirmed my conviction. The post I publised in Wenxuecity last night is dedicated to my argument against the appeal decision that has been made on the basis of defective logic and factually flawed premise of argument. I filed my case to Ohio Supreme Court on August 29, 2016. 

 

Relevant Documents:

1. On the day of my discharge from hospital as a result of domestic violence by my ex-fiance, Nov. 4, 2014, I received the notification of eviction and in the meantime he refused to pay the court decision.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/1.%20Eviction%20Writ%20of%20Restitution.jpg

 

2. After a loss of weight by 30 pounds within half a year, the long-term intentional infliction of starvation and intentional infliction of emotional distress made me lose consciousness twice a day on Oct. 31, 2014.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/2.%20Hospitalization.JPG

 

3. Medical record

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/3.%20Hospitalization%20record.jpg

 

4. Letter from anti-domestic violence organization

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/4.%20My%20Sister's%20Place%20letter.jpg

 

5. From late Feb. 2014, my ex-fiance refused to provide food and any other relevant living expense despite the affidavit of support he signed.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/5.%20Intentional%20infliction%20of%20starvation.jpg

 

6. In Sept. 2014, my ex-fiance filed a revengeful eviction when I had no way but resort to the lawsuit against his contract breaking behaviors.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/6.%20Revengeful%20eviction.jpg

 

7. In June 2014, I requested my ex-fiance to fulfill the affidavit of support when my school failed to receive my tuition and I could not register for the summer semester.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/7.%20My%20Ex-finace's%20Refusal%20to%20fulfill%20the%20Affidavit%20of%20Support.jpg

 

8. In May 2014, my ex-fiance notified my school of his refusal to fulfill the affidavit of support.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/8.%20My%20letter%20to%20my%20ex-fiance%20to%20request%20him%20to%20pay%202014%20Spring%20semster%20tuition.jpg

 

9. The letter from my school that proves that I worked as a teaching assistant before I came to Ohio.

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/B12.%20letter%20from%20MU.pdf?

 

10. Witness' Proof of my virtues

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/10.%20Witness's%20proof%20of%20my%20virtues.jpg?

 

11. My letter sent to my ex-fiance's family in May 2014

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/Letter%20to%20My%20ex-fiance's%20sister.jpg?

 

12. My letter sent to my ex-fiance in April 2014

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/12.%20Gmail%20-%20Lao%20gong%2C%20we%20all%20love%20you%20and%20our%20home%20is%20always%20open%20for%20you%20O(%E2%88%A9_%E2%88%A9)O-.pdf

 

13. Affidavit of Support my ex-fiance signed

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/13.%20isss-affidavit.pdf

 

14. My ex-fiance refused to pay any food or other expenses despite his promise both in verbal and written documents. When my school account was placed on hold for over two semsters, I had no way but to borrow a loan from my sister's ex-husband in late Oct. 2014. Before I got the loan from China, this long-term intentional infliction of starvation and emotional distress made me lose consciousness, suffer from temporary eye blindness, and hospitalized for five days. 

 

On the day of my discharge from hospital, I received the loan. One week later, my ex-fiance finally made a final payment of $300 in mid Nov. 2014, $4500 in total with $4200 as an attorney fee. 

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/1.%20Notarized%20Loan%20Certificate%20from%20Li%20Ouyang.pdf

 

https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/8069065/Aug.%208%20Domestic%20violence/B11c.%20Money%20transfer%20from%20Li%20Ouyang's%20Sister%20in%20Nov.%202014.pdf

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

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别的先不说,这日子对吗? -alohamora- 给 alohamora 发送悄悄话 (346 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:03:03

刚改过了,谢谢提醒 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:09:31

你前未婚夫都给你钱了,你还闹什么啊。 -xoaa2015- 给 xoaa2015 发送悄悄话 xoaa2015 的博客首页 (472 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:08:14

看我告毁约,他就告eviction,律师费各付各的;看我告家暴,就莫名其妙 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (258 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:14:01

人家让你住房子,你还告人家毁约,人家当然evict你了。 -xoaa2015- 给 xoaa2015 发送悄悄话 xoaa2015 的博客首页 (347 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:21:45

她的故事告诉大家,女人要靠自己,不能全指望找馅饼。 -xoaa2015- 给 xoaa2015 发送悄悄话 xoaa2015 的博客首页 (125 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:47:48

她是运气不好,好多网恋成功的,以后会发展到结婚大部分都是网恋 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:50:47

我倒是突然觉得 -*小星星*- 给 *小星星* 发送悄悄话 *小星星* 的博客首页 (221 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:04:44

我也觉得是这样。 -SuperZero- 给 SuperZero 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:06:26

不是,医生根本就没想娶她。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:08:39

这是她说的吧? -*小星星*- 给 *小星星* 发送悄悄话 *小星星* 的博客首页 (311 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:10:37

男人真要娶女人,一副巴结的样子还来不及,哪还敢约法三章,结婚后 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (47 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:11:35

我提出的约法三章,他表示完全同意,没有任何问题 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:13:42

你提这有的没的干嘛,有时间约法不去扯证,你失算了 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:16:38

别瞎传授经验了, -茹烟- 给 茹烟 发送悄悄话 (208 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:25:06

哈哈哈,告我什么? -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:28:24

告你没早点告诉她去领证 -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:45:57

没错,就是这感觉~~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:27:11

我们约法三章,孝敬父母,爱护子女,以家庭形式住在一起,晚些时候回国办仪式 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (284 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:55:15

不compromise就分手啊。 -xoaa2015- 给 xoaa2015 发送悄悄话 xoaa2015 的博客首页 (107 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:02:12

我提出来他按照担保付房租,我搬回学校写论文,他拒绝任何费用,即使是食物 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:09:03

为啥不让你家人支持你,他只不过是男朋友而已,你听得懂吗?根本没有法律义务 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:12:48

那你当时为什么不去登记结婚呢? -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:03:37

我妈只和他和他父母通过电话,想让妈妈高兴,回国办仪式 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:10:49

那你也要在美国先领结婚证啊,那男的根本就不想娶你,不然早就揪着你去法院登记了! -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:18:09

在美国先同居的不要太多啊 不合适还非得结婚啊 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:23:44

LZ要是能听懂我们的话,今天就木有这些茶资了~~~ -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:25:17

受骗了,就认了。你们办绿卡当然是要美国的结婚证,去中国扯证为毛啊? -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:04:23

那又怎样呢?不适合就可以分手啊,这是你的一厢情愿罢了。老美法官一听就嗤之以鼻,哪里有官司可打 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:07:35

相反,老美会觉得签订担保不执行造成一切损失应该负责 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:12:04

不是判过了吗 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:13:26

当时没有告家暴,怕影响他职业生涯 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:22:17

前后说的做的自相矛盾太多……你跟你的前夫结了婚又离婚,难道结婚前你们不是要以家庭形式住在一起都吗?你怎么不找他去要正义赔偿? -宅人- 给 宅人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:11:00

当时我作为基督徒反对婚前性行为,可是他反复承诺结婚早晚的事, -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (52 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:26:37

作为基督徒还不应该离婚呢,你不也离婚了? -MsSunshine- 给 MsSunshine 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:30:01

你还是少扯啥基督徒吧!烦人 -宅人- 给 宅人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:30:48

你是2婚了。 扯啥婚前性行为啊 -老恐龙- 给 老恐龙 发送悄悄话 老恐龙 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:30:56

lol -猪鼓励- 给 猪鼓励 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:35:44

你要有这个标准也不会网上认识才三月急吼吼滴奔赴别人的家,啥目的啊,对你不利的从来不说 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:34:02

他父母子女不跟你们住一起,你一天到晚盯着的就医生一个人,人有工作,当然不愿你一天到晚夺命追魂call个不停,结果被你说成跟护士乱 -SuperZero- 给 SuperZero 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:13:14

再次劝你,放下。你很接近中年失业的关口,还有这么多诉讼背景,谁敢雇用你? -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (59 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:15:37

赶快还是算了吧,都约法三章了,还谈什么爱情,赶紧拜拜还差不多~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:33:10

什么叫“以家庭形式”,不用Marriage Certificate 了? -十全老人- 给 十全老人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 07:05:03

那又怎样,结婚发现不合适过不来还离婚呢,当时你们相处好不等于永远好。 -xmp11- 给 xmp11 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 07:10:22

只能讲他不聪明,碰上阿拉呵呵,眼都不会抬一下。实话实说,根本没机会粘上。 -老子说两句- 给 老子说两句 发送悄悄话 (169 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:49:56

没啥内幕,就是觉得那个男医生缺根筋。 -老子说两句- 给 老子说两句 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:01:05

男人想占便宜,脑子短路中。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:14:27

2014年没有付一分钱学费 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:20:47

医生聪明就付些钱了事,不然你看,搞到现在臭不可闻,2败具伤多难看。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:22:16

女的不是说男的有好几个护士争先恐后往上扑的嘛,怎么就这么想占这个远距离的便宜 -SuperZero- 给 SuperZero 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:20:40

男的会嫌女的多才怪。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:31:33

一看你就不是馅饼粘你干嘛?人家宁肯饿晕!哈哈哈 -茹烟- 给 茹烟 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:19:01

不要再提"被"了, 没有人可以被你, 如果你不允许. 不要再有受害人的思想. 不要再自怜, 不要再幻想他再爱你, 也 -yiyiyu- 给 yiyiyu 发送悄悄话 (35 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:23:26

你至少要找一个native speaker改一下语法。另外 -alohamora- 给 alohamora 发送悄悄话 (439 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:15:08

语法应该没有什么问题吧,两个新闻专业的看过后说不用任何改动 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (134 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:21:19

语法没啥大问题,但语句拖沓,用词不当,无缘无故地弄得很繁复,作为法律文件不伦不类。 -vest2005- 给 vest2005 发送悄悄话 vest2005 的博客首页 (275 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:42:06

我吃过饭,逛完街回来,你还在这?你觉得把医生拖进监狱你就赢了?嗨,还是我们俗人好,没那么有正义感。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:16:31

这和家暴没关系。医生一没有殴打你,二没有性虐你,他不是你老公,按美国的法律没有养你的责任,所以也构不成经济虐待,分手后他有重新选 -Mimimimi3- 给 Mimimimi3 发送悄悄话 (2386 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:21:01

明知我不能合法打工,拒绝履行经济担保,造成学费拖欠两个学期,被留校察看及最终开除学籍 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (179 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:26:22

在美国拖欠学费根本不会被开除学籍。 -xoaa2015- 给 xoaa2015 发送悄悄话 xoaa2015 的博客首页 (164 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:28:44

别这样,他不痛惜你,也许是错的人,你再找一个宠你的男生多好,同这猥琐的小男人纠结是浪费生命。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:29:38

分明是老男人,真是太不值得了,自己的大好青春~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:30:49

你要过得比医生好,新老公比医生帅,你才是真赢。 -水准- 给 水准 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:31:22

是啊,退一步海阔天空,自己争取更好的未来,跟那个老头儿S磕太不值得了~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:33:35

你应该想法找人借钱先付了学费,那个老医生不值得你这么执着的~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:29:42

一直在想办法,最后一个文件,2014年10月27日贷款公证,在收到之前已经晕倒住院 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:48:46

你的贴太长,没耐心读,但通过这个回帖,你的逻辑思维是有问题的。 -专家建议- 给 专家建议 发送悄悄话 专家建议 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:12:17

这"两个明知道..." 的思维, 让你如此的人为自己正确? 哎, 退一步海阔天空. 这里大部分的一致意见, 你得听到心里去啊. -yiyiyu- 给 yiyiyu 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:33:42

你一分钱的积蓄也没有?非法打工怎么了?? -十全老人- 给 十全老人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 07:14:45

你能不能简洁的总结几句话啊!这也太长了! -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:24:23

一个女生被一个渣男甩了后,女生想为自己失去的青春讨个公道。 -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:06:21

毛的青春失去呀,开始时都39的2婚大妈了,不到1年人家就不要了。 -Thonee- 给 Thonee 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 07:05:00

使劲告, 告到白宫, 告到联合国 -toyota1- 给 toyota1 发送悄悄话 (62 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:26:48

还有美国妇联, black life matter, -toyota1- 给 toyota1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:38:14

支持你帮助她解决其他需要 -toyota1- 给 toyota1 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:10:27

是因为咽不下这口气吧 -Gwendolen- 给 Gwendolen 发送悄悄话 (540 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 05:46:44

我倒想知道你的手机费data费是怎么来的?我辛苦工作到现在data还不敢用无限的 -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:02:06

她就是一个无赖骗子,还成天的提正义。 -Juzz- 给 Juzz 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:06:56

Tmobile四五个学生组成family plan, unlimited talk + 2 G data 每月$30 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:15:33

最近比较忙,没怎么关注,但从跟贴来判断,真的替你父母难过。 -专家建议- 给 专家建议 发送悄悄话 专家建议 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:09:30

可能你已是为人父母,更能设身处地体会父母的无奈、心痛。我父亲2006年去世,只有母亲在中国 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:18:06

那你还不赶紧回去孝敬妈妈! -紫色海洋- 给 紫色海洋 发送悄悄话 紫色海洋 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:24:01

我妈妈看到我受委屈,她说她会死不瞑目,永远支持我 -阳光总在风雨后- 给 阳光总在风雨后 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:28:23

那让你妈赶紧给你寄钱把书读完……读完书有了工作一切就好起来了 -宅人- 给 宅人 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:34:14

理解你要拉住这最后一根稻草的心理与处境,只能祝你成功! -20146- 给 20146 发送悄悄话 20146 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:29:19

女人走到这一步,是真的比较让人同情,所托非人~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:38:34

40岁网上认识三月就和人同居了,学业啥都不管不顾了,感情失败了又啥不管不顾了:维持身份。然后就是S嗑 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:41:02

其实也许就是爱上了,爱情里女人的智商为零~~ -韮儿- 给 韮儿 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:43:17

她没有自己的小算盘?天下没有白吃的午餐 -咖啡飘香2016- 给 咖啡飘香2016 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:43:53

妹妹,当初你和他分手以后,可以自己的存款和你家人的资助回到原来的学校写论文。 -乌龟- 给 乌龟 发送悄悄话 (75 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:38:03

她家人给的两万多美元足够好好生活到把论文写完毕业了。 -狂爱蝴蝶酥- 给 狂爱蝴蝶酥 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:47:44

精神上崩溃了很难自己站起来 -海水很咸- 给 海水很咸 发送悄悄话 (104 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:54:53

你想过没有 -海水很咸- 给 海水很咸 发送悄悄话 (345 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 06:51:54

你这是正常人或"俗人"的想法。她做事是不考虑后路的 -DQ4412- 给 DQ4412 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 11:19:32

有手有脚的为什么一定要做寄生虫 -Mojito_girl- 给 Mojito_girl 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/31/2016 postreply 09:00:37

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