十万以上在加州/person is OK for basic livings. You need to think a lot

1. How this job vacancy came up? Was someone let go? Then he should think twice to take this job because this indicated unstable job security.
2. Are there similar jobs or companies that may hire him if this job does not work out?

3. Are there jobs for you nearby, with 15 miles distance? You are going to stay home and two income become one right away.

If any of the above questions can't be answered definitely. He should not come.

It is a critical age at 45. If everything works out well, there is no problem. But, if it does not work well, he is already too old in California. If he hops on two jobs more later, he may be too old for companies even to hire him. Even if he can always find a job, the psychological impact is huge for him. He will never be the same person anymore, and your relationship can be ruined. Not everybody from Canada has the broad enough background to fit American job market. I think you noticed somebody complained her husband for changing jobs in 5 years. Anyone can get into that here, but not everyone can get out that without a strong heart. Think all pros and cons thoroughly. I don't think it is a good idea to come.

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• 这坛的加州人都这麽多收入啊？四口之家要有四十万收入？难以相信啊。 -行走之间2016- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/25/2016 postreply 17:04:41

• Too risky to be worthy of -by心言- ♂ (109 bytes) () 04/25/2016 postreply 17:08:46

• 谢谢你的意见，很多不确定因素。有时从他的角度想人生能有几回博，他愿意挑战自己去冒险也是件好事。 -行走之间2016- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/25/2016 postreply 17:14:55

• 现在用人年轻化，四十多基本是个顶，之后就往下走了，大势如此。所以要有心理准备。即是个黄金年龄也是个正在变化的时期 -sibagn- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/25/2016 postreply 18:00:49